In this episode infidelity expert Todd Creager discusses one of the hardest questions you're grappling with right now: How do you know when your partner who betrayed you is actually becoming safe again? 

You thought they were trustworthy before, and then your whole world got turned upside down. I hear this all the time from my couples - "I never thought my partner would be capable of doing that." So how do you recognize real change when you see it? This is such an important question, and I want to share with you what I've learned from working with so many inspiring couples who've walked this healing journey.

Here's what you'll discover in this episode:

• Learn the real reasons why people cheat in the first place - it's not what most people think, and understanding this is crucial for recognizing genuine change
• Discover the specific signs that show your partner is learning to regulate their emotions in healthier ways and why this is the key to lasting transformation
• Understand how true healing looks when your partner starts opening their heart to you more and learning to depend on you in healthy ways
• Find out why real safety comes when your partner learns to be both uplifted and soothed by YOU instead of seeking that regulation elsewhere
• Get the concrete behaviors to watch for that indicate your relationship dynamics are genuinely shifting toward deeper connection and trust

Todd has seen it happen many times - people who betrayed learning to regulate differently, opening up more, and truly enjoying their partner in ways they never did before. 

There's no 100% guarantee in life, but there comes a point where there's a very high probability that person will not cheat again. 

Todd wants to help you recognize what that looks like so you can make the world safer for love. Tune in, and let's talk about this together.

My "Healing Infidelity From the Inside Out" approach isn't about quick fixes. It's about growing through the crisis so you have more options, more maturity, and become healthier individuals.

💜 Healing From The Inside Out:  https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity-inside-program
💜 Infidelity First Aid Kit: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/infidelity-first-aid

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Check out my complete program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" for more in-depth guidance: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclass

Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity
• Secrets to a Sexy Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets
• 7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM
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