Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: understanding attachment styles and their connection to childhood experiences.

Ever wondered why some people are more prone to infidelity or struggle to heal after being betrayed? The answers often lie in our early childhood experiences and how they shape our adult relationships. Join me as I unpack this fascinating topic and share insights from my years of experience helping couples navigate the treacherous waters of infidelity.

Here's what you'll discover in this episode:

• The four main attachment styles and how they impact your relationships

• Why understanding your attachment style is crucial for healing from infidelity

• How childhood experiences shape our adult relationship behaviors

• Practical exercises to uncover hidden childhood attachment issues

Whether you're dealing with infidelity or simply want to improve your relationships, this episode offers valuable insights that can transform the way you connect with your partner. I'll share real-life examples from my therapy practice and guide you through the process of self-discovery and healing.

Remember, there's hope for healing and creating the relationship you've always dreamed of. Tune in now to take the first step towards understanding yourself and your partner on a deeper level. Let's start this journey of healing from the inside out together!

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com

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Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the topic of understanding the pain of the betrayed partner and the betrayer which are from the first module of my newest program, "Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out." 

This isn't just another relationship guide – it's the culmination of years of experience helping thousands of couples navigate the treacherous waters of betrayal and come out stronger on the other side.

Here's what you can expect from this episode:

• Gain insight into the emotional rollercoaster both the betrayed and the betrayer experience after infidelity is discovered

• Learn why understanding both perspectives is crucial for true healing and rebuilding trust

• Discover the power of attunement and how it can transform your communication and connection

• Hear a real-life success story of a couple who used these principles to create a deeper, more fulfilling relationship after infidelity

We'll also touch on strategies for managing guilt and shame constructively, setting the stage for genuine healing and growth. 

If you're personally dealing with the fallout of infidelity, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tools to guide you through this challenging process.

So, grab a cup of coffee, find a quiet spot, and join me as we explore the path to healing infidelity from the inside out.

Trust me, you won't want to miss this transformative conversation. Let's start the journey to understanding, healing, and rebuilding together.

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com 

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Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for healthy relationships: conflict avoidance in marriage. In this episode, we're going to explore how our childhood experiences shape the way we handle (or avoid) conflict in our adult relationships.

Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:

• Discover why conflict avoidance is at the root of many relationship issues, from low sexual desire to infidelity
• Uncover how your family's approach to emotions and conflict might be influencing your current relationship dynamics
• Learn practical strategies to recognize and overcome conflict avoidance, leading to a more robust and fulfilling partnership
• Gain insights on how to create a "higher level harmony" in your relationship, based on emotional strength rather than fear and suppression

I'll share personal anecdotes from my years of couples therapy and provide you with actionable steps to start facing conflict head-on. Remember, the goal isn't to create conflict, but to handle it maturely when it inevitably arises.

If you're ready to transform your relationship and make the world a little safer for love, this episode is for you.

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com

HELPFUL LINKS

✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets

✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist

✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM

✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs

✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlife

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Welcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the surprising connection between conflict avoidance and physical intimacy. As a couples therapist, I've seen firsthand how avoiding tough conversations can put a damper on your sex life. But don't worry – I'm here to help you understand why this happens and what you can do about it!

Tune in to discover:

• The hidden intimacy killer that might be lurking in your relationship
• How being "healthfully selfish" can reignite your passion
• Practical tips to overcome conflict avoidance and improve your connection
• Real-life examples of how facing conflicts head-on can transform your sex life
• The neurobiological link between conflict and libido (don't worry, I'll keep it simple!)

Whether you're struggling with intimacy or just want to keep your connection strong, this episode is packed with insights that could transform your relationship. I'll share personal stories, client experiences (keeping everything confidential, of course), and give you actionable advice you can start using today.

So, grab your partner (or listen solo – that's okay too!) and join me as we make the world safer for love, one conversation at a time. Trust me, your future self (and your partner) will thank you for tuning in. Let's dive in and start building the passionate, connected relationship you deserve!

Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a coach, sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  

LINKS:

• Rekindle  those passionate, sexy feelings you both felt when you first met with Todd’s Secrets to a Sexy Marriage guide:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets

• Get Todd’s proven principles that will help you  make your marriage work and sustainable for the long haul with his guide:  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM

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Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that's close to my heart: "Lessons Learned From 40 Years of Marriage." Whether you're newlyweds or have been together for decades, this episode is packed with insights that can help strengthen your relationship.

Here's what you'll gain from tuning in:

• Real-Life Wisdom: Learn from my personal experiences and the invaluable lessons I've gathered over four decades of marriage.
• Communication Tips:  Discover effective communication strategies that can help you and your partner navigate through tough times and misunderstandings.
• Maintaining Intimacy:  Find out how to keep the spark alive and maintain a deep emotional and physical connection with your partner.
• Conflict Resolution: Get practical advice on resolving conflicts in a way that brings you closer rather than driving you apart.
• Building Trust: Learn the importance of trust and how to rebuild it if it has been broken.

Join me as I share the ups and downs, the laughter, and the tears that come with a long-term relationship. 

Let's explore how to make your love last a lifetime. Tune in now and take the first step towards a stronger, more fulfilling marriage!

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a sex expert and relationship coach based in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Rekindle  those passionate, sexy feelings you both felt when you first met with Todd’s Secrets to a Sexy Marriage guide:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets

• Get Todd’s proven principles that will help you  make your marriage work and sustainable for the long haul with his guide:  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM

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Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we dive deep into the complexities of human relationships. I'm Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're exploring a powerful communication strategy known as "The Disarming Technique." Whether you're navigating a romantic relationship, a friendship, or a professional connection, this technique can be a game-changer.

Here’s what you’ll gain from tuning in:

- Learn how to defuse tense situations and foster open, honest communication.

- Discover practical steps to implement the Disarming Technique in your everyday interactions.

- Understand the psychological benefits of disarming and how it can strengthen your relationships.

- Hear real-life examples and success stories that illustrate the technique's effectiveness.

- Gain insights into how this approach can help you build trust and resolve conflicts more effectively.

Join me as we unpack this transformative tool and equip you with the skills to enhance your relationships. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn how to communicate more empathetically and effectively.

Tune in now!

Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're diving into a topic that affects many couples: low sexual desire. Whether you're experiencing this yourself or supporting a partner through it, this episode is for you.

In this candid discussion, you'll discover:
• The surprising physical factors that can impact your libido, from hormones to medications
• How past traumas and stress can affect your sex drive (and what to do about it)
• The crucial link between emotional connection and sexual desire in long-term relationships
• Common misconceptions about low libido and how to address them effectively
• Practical strategies to reignite the spark and create a thriving, passionate connection

Remember, low sexual desire is a common challenge, but it doesn't have to strain your relationship. Join me as we explore compassionate, effective ways to understand and address this issue. Whether you're looking to boost your own libido or support your partner, this episode offers valuable insights for creating a more fulfilling love life. Tune in now and take the first step towards rekindling your passion!

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  

• Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets
• 10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist
• 7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM
• 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs
• Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlife 

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Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we dive deep into how trauma can affect your intimate relationships and what you can do to heal and build stronger connections.

• Understand Trauma's Impact: Learn how different types of trauma can influence intimacy and trust in your relationship.
• Healing Techniques: Discover effective methods like EMDR therapy to process and overcome past traumas.
• Enhance Communication: Get tips on how to communicate openly and honestly with your partner to strengthen your bond.
• Self-Care and Boundaries: Find out how to practice self-care and set healthy boundaries for a more fulfilling sexual relationship.

This episode is packed with my experience working with thousands of couples and offers valuable insights that can transform your love life. Don't miss out—tune in now to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity."

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Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  

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Welcome to a profoundly insightful episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," hosted by me, Todd Creager. Infidelity can shatter the foundations of the strongest relationships, leaving behind a trail of doubt, hurt, and mistrust. However, it's not the end of the road. 

In this episode, we delve deep into the heartache and, more importantly, the healing journey of couples who have navigated the tumultuous aftermath of infidelity. Join me as we explore not just the possibility of surviving infidelity but thriving beyond it.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Hope in Numbers: Learn about the encouraging statistics from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and how therapy has helped couples mend their relationships post-infidelity.
• Success Stories: Be inspired by real-life examples of couples who have turned their moments of betrayal into opportunities for deep, meaningful connection and growth within their relationship.
• Healing from the Inside Out: Understand why infidelity doesn't just happen and how addressing the root causes from a place of empathy and understanding can pave the way for genuine healing.
• Strategies for Rebuilding Trust: Discover actionable strategies that have helped couples rebuild trust, enhance communication, and rekindle intimacy after the breach of infidelity.
• The Role of Personal Growth: Find out how individual growth and self-awareness are key components in the journey toward healing, for both the partner who strayed and the one who was betrayed.

Why You Should Listen

Infidelity is undoubtedly one of the most challenging obstacles a relationship can face, yet it doesn't have to signify an end. This episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" shines a light on the paths to reconciliation, healing, and ultimately, a stronger bond between partners. Whether you're seeking solace, understanding, or ways to rebuild after infidelity, this episode offers hope, insights, and practical advice on navigating this difficult journey.

Don't let the pain of the past dictate the future of your relationship. Tune in to this episode and take the first step towards healing and rediscovery. Your love story isn't over; it's just beginning a new chapter.

Listen to the episode now and rediscover the strength of love in the face of adversity.

Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager, and today, we're diving deep into the tender yet tumultuous waters of restoring sexual intimacy after the storm of infidelity has hit. It’s a sensitive, complex topic, and whether you’ve experienced this personally or know someone who has, this episode is crafted to shed light on the path to healing and reconnection.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Understanding the Impact: Learn how betrayal can vary widely in its impact on intimacy from one couple to another, affecting desires and sexual dynamics in profoundly different ways.
• Navigating Emotional Turbulence: I’ll share strategies on how to handle the immediate emotional aftermath of discovering an affair, including the natural tendencies toward shutdown and heightened anxiety.
• Restoring Trust and Intimacy: Gain insights into the gradual process of rebuilding trust, with practical steps for both the betrayed and the betrayer to find their way back to a secure, intimate connection.
• Healing Together: We’ll explore the importance of facing the pain together, processing the betrayal, and making the relationship a safe space for both partners again.
• Building a Fulfilling Sexual Relationship Post-Infidelity: Find out how couples can eventually enjoy a rejuvenated sexual relationship by addressing the underlying emotional wounds and fostering honest communication.

Summary:
Restoring sexual intimacy after infidelity is no small feat; it requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to explore the depths of both pain and passion. This episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" will not only help you understand these dynamics but also provide you with the tools and confidence to start healing. Whether you’re directly impacted by infidelity or are supporting someone through such a journey, there’s something valuable for you here.

Why listen to this podcast episode?
The journey through repairing a relationship after infidelity is complex and deeply personal. With empathy, expertise, and practical advice, this episode will guide you through the necessary steps to not only restore intimacy but to also rediscover it, perhaps even more deeply than before. Join me, Todd Creager, as we navigate these challenging but ultimately rewarding waters together. Let’s heal, learn, and grow together. Listen now to begin the journey back to love and intimacy.