Real World Peaceful Parenting

263: When Your No Leads to Their Meltdown: Language That Works


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In this final episode of Lisa Smith’s January Boundary Series, Lisa gives parents the exact words to use when kids push back, melt down, or argue against limits. Instead of freezing, snapping, or feeling like the “bad guy,” you’ll learn how to hold firm boundaries while staying deeply connected. Through real-life examples, age-specific scripts, and the powerful “I know… and…” formula, Lisa shows how to be both kind and clear, without giving in or blowing up.


What You'll Learn:

  • Why the problem isn’t setting boundaries, but how they’re delivered
  • The simple “I know… and…” formula that helps kids feel seen while limits stay firm
  • Exact scripts to use for common struggles like screen time, bedtime, snacks, homework, and leaving the park
  • How to respond when kids keep pushing back, negotiating, or comparing you to other parents
  • What to say during full meltdowns while staying calm and connected
  • How to repair when you lose your cool and turn mistakes into moments of trust and safety
What if your child actually listened the first time… without yelling, punishments, or power struggles?


Join parenting coach Lisa Smith for a FREE 90-minute live class to learn how to discipline your strong-willed child without damaging your relationship—or their self-esteem.

Register today:
https://thepeacefulparent.com/class

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