Securely Attached

317. Q&A: My 5-year-old prefers my husband, does that mean she is more securely attached to him?


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Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Emily Upshur and I talk about...

 

  • What is the difference between attachment bonds and parental preferences?

  • If your child shows you their most dysregulated behaviors, doesn’t listen to you, or is their messiest self with you, what these behaviors may reveal. (Spoiler: It’s a good sign!)

  • If your child does have an insecure attachment to you, practical strategies and interventions you can use to start repairing your relationship.

  • The difference between independent play and child led play, and how only one of these is used to help you improve your connection.

  • Dr. Sarah’s 6-basics that all kids need before you can start developing a deeper bond with your child.

  • How you can tap into your child's attachment security in other relationships to help you deepen your own bond to each other.

 

 

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

 

🤳 Go to drsarahbren.com/secure to download my free guide, The Four Pillars of Fostering Secure Attachment, helping you parent with a focus on attunement and trust.

 

👉🏻 Click here to lean more about support options at Upshur Bren Psychology Group and to schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to learn more about the available resources for your unique needs.

 

 

ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about children favoring one parent

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about attachment security in our early relationships with Dr. Alan Sroufe 

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about breaking an insecure attachment cycle with Dr. Miriam Steele

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about what to do if your child loses it more with you than anyone else

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about the benefits of using an authoritative approach to parenting

 

 

WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:

 

Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!

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