Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...

• Why many parents worry that using the word "autism" might make their child feel different or labeled, and how to think about that fear.
• What research and clinical experience suggest about telling your child sooner rather than later.
• How giving a diagnosis a name can actually feel empowering and help your child make sense of their experiences.
• What it looks like to take a neuroaffirming, strengths-based approach when talking about autism.
• How to explain autism to a young child in developmentally appropriate, non-pathologizing language.Why this doesn't have to be one big, serious conversation and how to follow your child's lead over time.
• The value of being the one who defines what autism means for your child, before the world does.
• Simple ways to normalize and support your child through representation, stories, and everyday conversations.

This episode will help you understand how to talk about neurodiversity in a way that feels simple, affirming, and age-appropriate, so your child can better understand their brain, their strengths, and the ways they experience the world.

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

🔗 Every child deserves to feel safe, understood, and supported, and every parent deserves a place to turn. At Upshur Bren Psychology Group, we offer a full continuum of autism services: diagnostic testing, individual therapy, and parent support groups for families raising children and young adults on the spectrum. Visit upshurbren.com or schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to learn more about support options for you and your child.

📚 Different Thinkers: Autism by Katia Fredriksen PhD and Yael Rothman PhD

📚 Wonderfully Wired Brains: An Introduction to the World of Neurodiversity

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to help autistic kids build joy, confidence, and connection with Dr. Peter Vermeulen

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about treating autism with a strength based approach with Dr. Lynn Kern Koegel

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about whether a neuropsych Evaluation is right for your child with Dr. Yael Rothman & Dr. Katia Fredriksen

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to modify traditional sleep strategies for neurodiverse brains with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown

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I'm joined by doula, childbirth educator, and founder of Baby To Go, Sarah Ludwig, to talk about what it actually means to prepare for birth and why so many parents feel overwhelmed, anxious, or like they have to "get it right."

Together, we explore:

• What a doula actually does and how they support families during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum.
• Why pregnancy can increase anxiety, and how to work with it instead of against it.
• The difference between what you can control and what you can't during birth.
• How to think about birth plans as flexible "preferences" rather than fixed outcomes.
• Why trying to control every detail can sometimes make anxiety worse.
• How to build confidence in your ability to cope, even when things don't go as planned.
• The role of postpartum planning and why it's often overlooked.
• How to recognize when anxiety is within a normal range and when it might need more support.

Instead of focusing on creating the perfect plan, this conversation is about building your ability to cope with uncertainty and feel more confident in the process.

LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:

🔗https://www.baby-to-go.com/

🔗Hudson Valley Birth Network

📱IG: @baby_to_go FB: Baby To Go

LEARN MORE ABOUT ME:

🔗 https://drsarahbren.com/

📱@drsarahbren

ADDITIONAL REFERENCES AND RESOURCES:

👉 Click HERE to sign up for my FREE workshop, Confident Parenting from the Start, to get tools and strategies that you can put into practice right away to challenge self-doubt, put an end to your panic-Googling, and finally find the ease and enjoyment in early parenthood!

👉 Click HERE to download my free interactive workbook, My Mental Health Postpartum Checklist, that will help you create a personalized mental health support system for yourself allowing you to feel more confident and relaxed, knowing you have a plan for whatever your unique postpartum experience may be.

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to create a plan with your OB/GYN that supports resilience and reduces anxiety during and after pregnancy with Dr. Shieva Ghofrany

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about processing birth trauma with Dr. Sterling

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to read your child's cues, build routines, and trust your instincts with pediatrician Dr. Golly

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...

• Why the expectation that toddlers should already know how to regulate themselves is a common parenting myth.
• What's actually happening in a child's brain and body when their emotional "gas tank" is empty.
• Why your child's big reaction to a limit doesn't mean you've done something wrong.
• The difference between holding a boundary and trying to solve your child's feelings.
• What to do when your child's behavior is physically aggressive, like hitting or hair pulling.
• Why your own triggers matter and how understanding them can help you respond differently.
• The foundational factors (like sleep, fresh air, movement, and connection) that often drive behavior more than discipline strategies.

If you've ever felt powerless, guilty, or overwhelmed in the face of your child's big emotions, this episode will help you zoom out, reset unrealistic expectations, and approach these moments with more clarity and compassion—for both your child and yourself.

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

👉 Want extra support in your parenting journey? Upshur Bren Psychology Group offers therapy and coaching to give parents the tools to feel more grounded and confident as they navigate parenthood and learn how to most effectively support their child. Visit upshurbren.com to explore our services and schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to find the support that's right for your family.

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about the psychology behind dysregulation with founder of Parenting Translator Cara Goodwin

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about what to do when your child is hitting

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to identify and manage your triggers with Dr. Amber Thornton

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about using the attachment relationship to help your toddler fall asleep, with Eileen Henry

WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:

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GLP-1 medications like Ozempic and Wegovy are everywhere right now. But behind the headlines and social media debates are real people navigating complicated questions about body image, health, and how to talk about these changes with their families.

Clinical psychologist Dr. Rachel Goldman joins me to unpack the psychology behind GLP-1 medications, the concept of "food noise," and how parents can thoughtfully talk to their children about changes in their own bodies.

Together we explore:

• Why obesity is now understood as a chronic, multifactorial disease rather than a simple issue of willpower.
• What "food noise" is and why GLP-1 medications can dramatically quiet the constant mental chatter around food.
• The biggest misconceptions about GLP-1 medications and why they're not simply "weight loss drugs."
• Why significant body changes can bring up complicated identity and emotional shifts.
• How parents can talk to kids about weight loss or body changes without reinforcing shame or diet culture.
• The difference between body positivity and body neutrality and why neutrality may be more realistic and helpful for many families.
• Small language shifts that help children focus on what their bodies do, rather than how they look.
• Why it's never too late for parents to shift the way they talk about bodies and health.

This conversation will help you understand the science and psychology behind GLP-1 medications and give you practical tools and language to navigate your own health journey and talk about it with your kids in thoughtful, supportive ways.

LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:

🔗 Dr. Rachel

📚 When Life Happens: The Mindset Shift You Need to Manage Stress, Build Confidence, and Break Free

FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:

📱@drrachelnyc

📱@drsarahbren

ADDITIONAL REFERENCES AND RESOURCES:

👉 Want extra support in your parenting journey? Upshur Bren Psychology Group offers therapy and parenting coaching to help you feel more grounded and confident as you support your child's emotional development and navigate challenges like body image, big emotions, anxiety, and family dynamics. Visit upshurbren.com to explore our services and schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to find the support that's right for your family.

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about navigating their effects on body image from early childhood to teen years with Dr. Miriam Steele

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about empowering girls to navigate media, body image, and societal pressures with Dr. Jo-Ann Finkelstein

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about youth sports and body image with Zoë Bisbing

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...

• What a time-in actually is and how it's different from a time-out.
• How to tell if your child's behavior is coming from dysregulation, a skill gap, or deliberate behavior.
• How to know which discipline tools will work best in each unique situation.
• The difference between co-regulating during a meltdown and teaching a behavioral boundary (and how to know when to use each).
• How to use time-outs as a teaching tool, not a punishment.
• How developmental stages affect behaviors like hitting, tantrums, and defiance—and what realistic expectations to set.
• Why trying to find the "perfect parenting script" often makes discipline harder.
• The one question to ask yourself that will help you decide what to do in the moment.

If you've ever found yourself wondering whether you should comfort your child, correct the behavior, or step away entirely, this episode will help you zoom out, understand what's really going on underneath the behavior, and respond more intentionally.

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

🔗 Longitudinal Relationship Between Time-Out and Child Emotional and Behavioral Functioning

👉 Feeling confused about discipline strategies like time-ins, time-outs, and consequences? Visit drsarahbren.com/timeout to download my ✨FREE✨ Discipline Guide to learn when and how to use these tools in a way that actually supports your child's development while reducing power struggles at home. This guide breaks down how to respond to common behaviors like tantrums, hitting, and defiance so you can feel more confident in the moment.

📚The Tantrum Survival Guide: Tune In to Your Toddler's Mind (and Your Own) to Calm the Craziness and Make Family Fun Again by Rebecca Schrag Hershberg, PhD

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about using your child's brain, body and nervous system to guide your parenting Dr. Mona Delahooke

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about the psychology behind dysregulation with founder of Parenting Translator Cara Goodwin

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to integrate effective discipline that prioritizes emotional and mental health with Sarah R. Moore

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Let's revisit the foundation of raising securely attached kids! I'm bringing back one of my first ever episodes to help parents understand the basics of how a secure attachment bond impacts children's resilience, confidence, and overall well-being.

Tune in to hear:

• What secure attachment is and how it plays a key role in nurturing a child's confidence, curiosity, and ability to handle life's ups and downs.
• The powerful influence of feeling safe and seen on a child's ability to be honest, adaptable, and resilient.
• Practical strategies for fostering secure attachment, no matter the age of your child.
• How attachment affects a child's development into a compassionate, kind individual who can build meaningful relationships throughout their life.

This episode offers science-backed insights and actionable tips and is a must-listen for all parents!

INTERESTED IN LEARNING MORE ABOUT ATTACHMENT SCIENCE?

Click HERE to download my free guide, The Four Pillars of Fostering Secure Attachment, helping you parent with a focus on attunement and trust.

LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. SARAH:

https://drsarahbren.com/

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https://www.instagram.com/drsarahbren/

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Breaking the cycle of insecure attachment: How to support your child's secure attachment even if you didn't grow up with it with Dr. Miriam Steele

🎧 Secure attachment is optimal, but insecure attachment may not be as bad as we think with Dr. Or Dagan

🎧 Can my kid be securely attached to me if I'm insecurely attached in my adult relationships?

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...

• Whether it's developmentally realistic to expect a baby and a toddler to "work together" during play.
• If separating siblings in certain moments is helpful parenting… or something we're supposed to avoid.
• The concept of "territory" in child development and why young children often need spaces and projects that feel protected.
• Why pushing young children to share too early can sometimes make cooperation harder later on.
• How helping a toddler trust that their creations and belongings will be respected can actually reduce sibling rivalry over time.
• The difference between communal family spaces and personal spaces for kids' toys and projects.
• Simple ways to set boundaries that support both children's needs without turning every moment into a negotiation.
• Where kids actually learn to get along with siblings — so you can focus on the moments that matter and release some of the pressure around the rest.

If you're parenting siblings close in age and feel like you're constantly refereeing fights over toys, this episode will help you better understand what's developmentally normal and give you practical ways to support both children without feeling like you have to force sharing or cooperation before they're ready.

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

👉 Want extra support in your parenting journey? Upshur Bren Psychology Group offers therapy and coaching to give parents the tools to feel more grounded and confident as they navigate parenthood and learn how to most effectively support their child. Visit upshurbren.com to explore our services and schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to find the support that's right for your family.

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about encouraging sibling empathy without making them responsible for each other's feelings

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to get your toddler to share

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about soothing your baby and encouraging a closed sibling bond with Dr. Golly

WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:

Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!

Dr. Audrey van der Meer, developmental neuroscientist and Professor of Neuropsychology at NTNU, joins me to talk about what's happening inside our children's brains when they write by hand versus type on a keyboard and what the shift toward fully digital classrooms may be costing their learning, memory, and focus.

Together we explore:

• What gross motor development is and why its sequential nature is so essential for a child's development.
• The research that illustrated that handwriting activates larger neural networks linked to memory, attention, and deeper learning compared to typing.
• Why taking notes by hand improves memory retention and comprehension.
• The "use it or lose it" principle of brain development and what that means for cognitive growth.
• What studies reveal about reading on paper versus reading on screens.
• How screens can be beneficial too, so you can make informed, intentional decisions about when to incorporate technology and when to set limits.
• Practical, realistic ways parents can strengthen brain development at home without banning screens or rejecting technology altogether.

This conversation isn't about rejecting technology or going back to the Stone Age. It's about being intentional. And when we understand how the brain evolved to learn, we can make small shifts that serve to strengthen our children's development.

LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:

🔗Dr. Audrey van der Meer

🔗NuLab

FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:

📱@audreyvandermeer

📱@drsarahbren

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about the hidden dangers of EdTech with Andy Liddell

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to keep your child safe in a world of AI, algorithms, and social media with Imran Ahmed

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about parenting with the "whole-brain" with Dr. Dan Siegel

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about rewiring the way our kids interact with screens with Alé Duarte

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode Dr. Emily Upshur and I talk about...

• Why cleanup time can be surprisingly hard for young children.
• What's really happening in your toddler's brain and body when they are resisting transitions.
• Is repeating yourself over and over again a normal part of parenting young kids? And how do you know when it's part of the learning process versus something that needs a different approach?
• How motor planning, executive functioning, and task initiation can make something like "clean up your toys" feel overwhelming to a child.
• Why you might still be doing 90% of the cleanup work at this age (and why that can actually be part of the learning process.)
• Practical strategies to make cleanup easier, including breaking tasks into smaller steps, planning ahead for transitions, and using cues like songs and routines.
• How to shift your expectations so you can stay calm and connected instead of getting pulled into power struggles.

If you find yourself repeating the same requests over and over while trying to stay patient and regulated, this episode will help you understand what's developmentally normal for young children and give you practical tools to make cleanup time and transitions feel more manageable for both you and your child.

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

👉 Want extra support in your parenting journey? Upshur Bren Psychology Group offers therapy and coaching to give parents the tools to feel more grounded and confident as they navigate parenthood and learn how to most effectively support their child. Visit upshurbren.com to explore our services and schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to find the support that's right for your family.

💥 Tired of constant battles with your child? Watch my ✨FREE✨ workshop, Overcoming Power Struggles, where I'll teach you the exact strategies I use in my clinical practice to help parents break free from the cycle of yelling, threats, and negotiations—and instead foster cooperation, connection, and calm. Just visit drsarahbren.com/powerstruggles to get instant access to this workshop.

ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 94. Toddler sleep: Why it's different than infant sleep and how to use the attachment relationship to help them fall asleep, with Eileen Henry

🎧 90. Seeing the world through your toddler's eyes: Helping your child feel seen, understood, and validated with the co-authors of the Terrific Toddlers series

🎧 209. How can I get my toddler to share and play nicely with other kids?

🎧231. BTS: How can I build my toddler's assertiveness skills?

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Dr. Jett Stone, clinical psychologist and author of Quiet Your Mind: A Men's Guide, joins me to talk about paternal mental health and the invisible emotional load modern fathers are carrying, many without language, models, or permission to talk about it.

Together we explore:

• Why millennial dads often feel like they're parenting without a blueprint.
• How intergenerational patterns and "boyhood rules" shape the way men show up as fathers.
• Why so many dads feel like the "secondary parent" and how mothers can invite fathers in without diminishing their own needs or experiencing resentment.
• The tension between wanting authority and wanting connection with your child (and how to hold both).
• Why secure attachment with dads doesn't have to look exactly like secure attachment with moms.
• How doing your own reflective work as a parent can transform the entire family system.

This conversation will help you understand the emotional lives of fathers with more compassion and clarity. Because when dads feel supported, included, and emotionally resourced, the whole family benefits.

Whether you're a parent, a partner, or a therapist working with families, this episode will expand the way you think about modern fatherhood.

LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:

🔗Dr. Jett Stone

📚Quiet Your Mind: A Men's Guide: Practical Techniques to Stop Overthinking and Take Charge of Your Life

💻 Psychology Today

🎧 No Man's an Island podcast

FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:

📱@drjettstone

📱@drsarahbren

ADDITIONAL REFERENCES AND RESOURCES:

👉 Looking for extra support in your parenting journey? Upshur Bren Psychology Group offers therapy and parent coaching for moms, dads, and families who want to feel more grounded and confident as they navigate parenthood and support their child's development. Visit upshurbren.com to explore our services or schedule a free 30-minute consultation to find the right support for your family.

CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about fostering deep and meaningful relationships with Dr. Rick Hanson

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about what it means to be a father with Kendall Smith

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about becoming a team with your partner-in-parenting with Lauren A. Tetenbaum

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about fostering a secure attachment relationship