There are 3 distinct levels to personal development and self-improvement. And most high achievers get trapped forever in Level 2—never fully healing or integrating with their internal world because they’re stuck trying to conquer it. 

While Level 2 is helpful up to a point, if you stay in Level 2 for too long, you’ll never experience true healing or integration. 

Worst part?

Most influencers and coaches intentionally keep you stuck at Level 2 because it’s easier to sell you “the one thing” you need than to fix yourself than sell the message that you don’t need fixed and you’re already worthy. 

But there’s a way through Level 2 to reach Level 3 and experience how life fundamentally feels different when you’re healed and integrated. 

In today’s show, I’ll walk you through the 3 stages of personal growth, explain why Level 2 is so intoxicating, but stagnate, and reveal the counterintuitive approach to get to Level 3. 

Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• Why obsessing over self-development stunts your internal growth (0:18) 
• The 3 levels of personal development and how learning which level your stuck at explains almost everything about your current struggles (1:04) 
• 3 telltale signs you’re stuck in the insidious “Level 2 Self Improvement” trap (and how to finally break through to the third level and experience true healing) (3:25)  
• The “stop fixing, start listening” secret that actually heals your inner world instead of trying to fix it (4:34) 
• How trying to conquer or change your parts means you’re still not integrating or healing (and one question to help you integrate and heal) (10:15) 
• Why most of the deep- or enlightened-sounding advice on the internet keeps you stuck at level 2 (15:20) 

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