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► Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

01:18 Thing 1: Before A Relationship: They Dream Of “The Perfect Partner”. But Don’t Actually Want To Meet Them.

05:02 Thing 2: In The Dating Phase: They Focus on Weaknesses, But Want To See The Strengths

08:20 Thing 3: In The Beginning Of The Relationship: They Judge Other People, But Actually Want Harmony

12:09 Thing 4: During The Relationship: They Overplay “Weak” Emotions, But Only Bond Through “Positive” Ones

14:59 Thing 5: During The Relationship: They Appear Inattentive or “Off”, But Actually Just Want Safety

19:15 Thing 6: In The End of The Relationship: Not Selfish, But Want Connection

21:59 Thing 7: After The Breakup: They Feel Incredibly Deliberated, But Soon After Miss Their Ex

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► Hi, my name is Robert! I create videos about childhood trauma & attachment theory.

My content aims to help you transform trauma-driven reactions that block you, so you can embrace a life full of happiness, safe & loving relationships, and self-confidence. :)

► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.

I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.