What if everything you’ve been taught about dating is only half the story?

In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius is joined by dating and relationship coach Elsa Moreck for a powerful deep dive into the psychology of attraction, emotional intelligence, and modern masculinity. Together, they explore what it means to be truly self-aware in your relationships, how to break free from toxic dating patterns, and why your energy speaks louder than words.

Elsa shares practical insights on building trust, creating emotional safety, and tapping into your authentic masculine or feminine edge. From decoding body language to mastering presence and communication, this conversation is a game-changer for anyone who wants to date with confidence and intention.

In this episode, Darius and Elsa will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction and Background

(02:58) Elsa's Journey to Becoming a Dating Coach

(05:46) Cultural Influences on Dating and Popularity

(08:57) Transitioning to Coaching and Entrepreneurship

(12:01) The Challenges of 'Just Be Yourself' Advice

(15:00) Elsa's Methodology for Coaching Men in Dating

(20:19) Personalized Coaching for Dating Success

(25:54) The Importance of Flirting Skills

(29:57) Understanding and Using Negging

(35:58) Dating Dynamics Across Different Ages

(37:00) The Role of Financial Success in Dating

(42:24) Navigating the Friend Zone

(47:12) Understanding Body Language in Attraction

(51:56) Effective Communication and Pickup Lines

(57:34) The Role of Dating Apps in Modern Dating

(58:44) Overcoming Victimhood for Personal Growth

Elsa Moreck is a Lebanese-American author and Millennial dating coach based in Austin, Texas. Since 2015, she’s helped Millennials navigate the challenges of modern dating culture—offering guidance on attraction, setting boundaries, and building lasting relationships in a swipe-driven world. Elsa’s coaching practice attracts a global audience seeking clarity in their love lives, and she’s become a trusted voice in the dating scene. In 2016, she published her first book, Eliminate, Meditate, Create.

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Website: https://www.elsamoreck.com/ 

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Website: https://therealdarius.com/

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