How to Stay Human

64. [HOT TAKE] Outgrowing Friendships and Finding Your Soul Tribe

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Welcome Back Coachable Fam! This week we have a solo talk with Tori going into all things realigning friendships and relationships and 5 ways to find community! As one of TikTok’s Top 100 Female Creators, Tori Gordon is an Award-Winning Content Creator, Trauma Informed Breathwork Facilitator and Master Coach whose mission is to guide people and organizations to their highest potential and fullest expression. As founder of Coachable LLC, Tori believes that coachability is the biggest indicator of long-term success and the most under-valued skill we can acquire. Through her engaging content, transformational speaking, highly experiential workshops, and integrated approach, Tori uses these and other spiritual principles to help those who have been suffering in silence release themselves from their mental prisons and catalyze massive breakthroughs.

 [2:00] Get To Know Yourself

  • “First way to find community is to commit to going inward”
  • “Try new things, what lights you up? What’s fun?
  • “Date yourself, treat yourself the way you want to be treated”
  • “Work on yourself: coaches, therapy, retreats.” 
  • “Raise your standard not just what you’re asking of others but what you’re asking of yourself”

    • [6:00] Create Space 

    • “Release friendships and relationships that don't feel right and feel forced” 
    • “Ask yourself do these people make you feel more filled up or empty”
    • “Are the people in your life reminding you of who you’ve been or do they push you to who you want to become?”
    • “it’s natural to outgrow people” 
    • “Let go of the belief that it’s better to have someone than no one” 

      • [10:24] Be Open To Meeting People Online 

      • “We’re more connected than ever” 
      • “We are so connected you can find people who have similar interests to you.” 
      • “Meet people organically yes, but also recognize that there are people online that can be amazing friends”

        • [13:00] Trust Your Intuition 

        • “I followed my inspiration and what was exciting me at the time”
        • “I trusted my intuition”
        • “Put out an intention of where I needed to go”
        • “Now I am living in moments that I wanted so badly”
        • “No greater gift you can give yourself than testing yourself and trusting yourself”
        • “Be okay to run alone for a little”

          • [17:32] Share Your Journey

          • “Talk about what you’re going through whether its social media or not”
          • You don't realize who is feeling inspired by what you are sharing”
          • “Share online, share with friends.”
          • “Your story can offer space to others to share theirs” 

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