Most people try to grow by adding more tactics. New habits. New hacks. New systems.

But if you're like many professionals, you've already done all that. You've pushed. You've optimized. You've carried the weight.

But at a certain point in your career, all that effort stops working. Not because you've failed — but because growth at the higher levels isn't tactical anymore. It's emotional.

When you're at war with yourself, no system can save you. Every "should" becomes another shackle. Every push tightens the knot you're trying to loosen. And that inner incongruence is what actually burns people out.

In this new episode, you'll learn why self-acceptance is the leadership upgrade most professionals never discover, how compassion dissolves shame-based motivation, and how inner congruence unlocks clarity, presence, and true power.

Listen now.

Show Highlights Include:

• The weird way the exact qualities that helped you thrive in the earlier part of your career sabotage your growth mid-career and beyond (1:03)
• What all of your worst decisions have in common (and how realizing this helps your "internal intelligence" turn back on) (5:13)
• How dissolving your inner war almost instantly improves your instincts, intuition, and insight (5:40)
• Why "internal resistance" is one of the most expensive taxes you'll ever pay (and how to address it before it steals your creativity, your presence, and your wealth) (7:59)
• The cold, hard truth about why uncertainty feels like failure, a setback morphs into a spiral, and tough conversations wage a mental war in your mind (9:19)
• How to make every challenge you're facing feel lighter by giving into your emotions instead of fighting them (11:16)
• The "AMP" secret that reveals how to build deep motivation and conquer your goals with relative ease (14:52)
• The insidious "Shackles of the Shoulds" trap that puts psychological handcuffs on you and prevents you from reaching your full potential (15:16)
• Why the true cause of burnout has nothing to do with how much you're working (it comes from this…) (16:59)

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