Beyond Success

#69: How Success Degrades Clarity & Judgment


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When you're just starting out in your career, the feedback loop is crystal clear. There's a cause and effect to your actions that lead to instantaneous rewards or consequences.

But the more success you achieve, the more muddled this signal becomes.

And the more distorted your signal, the more stressed and burnt out you become… while your confidence and self-esteem slowly evaporate.

Here's the worst part:

A muddled signal is a sign from your internal environment that it needs a software update. But it's sneaky - fear disguises itself as prudence and internal consequences are delayed from your external world. And so, you push harder, exert more effort, and fall deeper into this vicious cycle.

But there's a better way…

In today's show, you'll discover why your signal becomes so muddled, how success exacerbates the distortion, and why cleaning your signal and gaining clarity requires a completely different approach to what you're doing now.

Listen now.

Show Highlights Include:

  • The insidious "Degraded Clarity" trap that sneaks up on you and slowly spoils your success (and why most people don't even notice it) (1:23)
  • Have you silently watched your sense of ease vanish and get replaced with frustration? Here's the psychology behind why this happens, why it's more common than you think, and what you can do about it (2:47)
  • The "Tyranny of Metrics" mishap that happens between the external and internal world - and why this explains why your results can lead to peace and serenity (3:38)
  • The dark side of success nobody talks about (and only a select few actually understand) that undermines your judgment (4:44)
  • What romanticizing the "Garage Phase" of your career means on a psychological and emotional level. (Ignoring this "shot across the bow" can teach your mind the exact opposite lesson.) (7:13)
  • How adapting to your environment dulls your career trajectory (even though the ability to adapt is a good and natural skill) (8:57)
  • Why internal constraints - not skill, effort, stress, or ambition - are the culprit behind hitting the invisible "upper limit" of growth (11:02)
  • How fear LARPs as prudence, experience, and even wisdom (15:52)

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another?

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