Ever wonder why some people light up a room and others shrink the second the spotlight hits them? Why confidence looks so natural for some but feels impossible to fake?

I brought in Charlie Houpert, founder of Charisma on Command (7M+ YouTube subscribers), to decode the psychology of confidence, charisma, and connection… using viral clips, movie moments, and real-world relationships.

From Taylor Swift’s transformation from shy to self-assured, to the body language cues that reveal insecurity, to the painful truth about why couples tear each other down in public, this episode will change the way you see confidence forever.

We break down what it really means to project power without arrogance, build self-worth without validation, and read people’s energy so you never get played again.

SHOWNOTES

The Hidden Cues That Reveal Confidence vs. Insecurity

The Aborted Wave: Why We Shrink Instead of Showing Up

The Confidence Arc in Pretty Woman: Judgment, Shame & Revenge

Taylor Swift: From Insecure to Unshakable

Why Women Rush Their Words (and How to Reclaim Space)

The Alec Baldwin Red Carpet Breakdown: When Relationships Go Public

Why “Clapping Back” Costs You Confidence

When Contempt Kills Relationships (and How to Rebuild Respect)

Mean Girls & the Science of Fake Niceness

Why We Fall for Insincere People (and How to Stop)

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CharismaonCommand Website: https://www.charismaoncommand.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliehoupert/ 

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