If only your child would let go of this GRUDGE she's carrying. If it weren't for that, the two of you could be close again, the way you're meant to be. But wait – Why is your child holding a grudge? And if she is, then what's the remedy? If your child is holding a grudge, there's absolutely nothing you can do but wait till he comes around. And hope it doesn't take too long. In this episode, Tina brings good news: A grudge is probably not the reason your adult child is estranged right now. And if it's not a grudge your child is insisting on holding, then as a parent, you have the power to change the picture. Tina lists three considerations for parents who feel their adult child is simply holding a grudge. Spoiler alert: It's not that simple. And it's definitely not that hopeless from a parent's point of view. Members can discuss this episode in the General Discussion forum inside the Reconnection Club. Not a member yet? Learn more and join. Check out Tina's book, Reconnecting with Your Estranged Adult Child