When you’ve been single for 13 years, “I’m fine” starts sounding a lot like “I’ve given up.”

Kimberly was successful on paper, but she was quietly miserable off it. Between perimenopause, work burnout, and pandemic isolation, she’d convinced herself she was too busy (and too jaded) for love. Then she found Ready for Love, and everything shifted. 

She thought she was signing up to find love. Happily, she found herself in the process.

In this episode, Kimberly gets raw about forgiving herself after an affair, dropping decades of shame, and learning what real emotional maturity looks like. She shares how doing the work helped her move cities, meet her partner (again), and launch her own consulting business with actual self-trust.

Now she’s living proof: self-love isn’t a backup plan, it’s the whole plan.

Episode Highlights:

Why independence can be emotional armor in disguise

The real reason self-forgiveness changes everything

What “doing the work” actually looks like when it sticks

How loving yourself first changes your love life and your career

The secret to attracting love that feels calm, not chaotic

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Finding Love by Loving Yourself First

00:22 13 Years Single and Ready for Change

05:53 Healing Shame and Rebuilding Self-Worth

07:58 How Attachment Styles Impact Relationships

11:40 Meeting Her Partner and Creating Healthy Love

16:02 From Self-Love to Career Confidence

17:50 Why Investing in Yourself Always Pays Off

✨ I’m Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers.

💡 Through this podcast, I share my WOMAN-centered, SELF-centered approach—time-tested methods that blend psychology, brain science, relationship skills, and no-BS dating advice.

🎙️ Since 2017, we’ve helped over 10,000 women with a 98% success rate, making Ready for Love the #1 program in the world for women who’ve tried everything else.

✨ Ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally create the love you deserve? 

🎯 Watch my free masterclass to learn the proven 4-step Ready for Love Method: https://readyforloveinc.com/masterclass

💬 Apply for a free Love Breakthrough Call with my team: https://readyforloveinc.com/apply