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This week our listener describes a relationship with her mother where she's completely invisible. After numerous slights, and outrageous behaviour around her father's death, she hasn't seen her mother for 8 months and doesn't know how to move forward.

Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on. 

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