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This week our listener  describes a childhood where she was completely invisible unless she was helping her mother. Now as an adult she's struggling in social settings, not sure if she's getting it right, and worrying that her parents were right; she's just oversensitive.

Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on. 

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