A Man's Journey Through Divorce

Wherever we are in life, we have the choice to create. Creation starts as a thought and builds into an outcome tied to that thought. If the thought is rooted in scarcity-based thinking (fear/doubt/worry), then the outcome reflects that theme. If the thought is centered on prosperity-based thinking (creation/possibility), then the outcome aligns with this positive theme. In this episode, Steve talks about creating new outcomes as a result of divorce and how to recognize the thoughts you need to change to reach what you intend to create. Tune in to learn how to shift your mindset and manifest a more prosperous future.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Resistance to change may be happening now during separation, and resistance to finding different outcomes with your wife most likely existed during your marriage. Resistance is natural, especially during life's most challenging times. In this episode, Steve talks about resistance and continues with the theme of the scarcity mindset that tends to dominate those thinking about, or going through, divorce. He shares elements of his story and how resistance created lengthy delays in his divorce recovery and personal growth. Tune in to learn how to identify and overcome resistance to foster a smoother transition and personal development.




Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Do you spend more time thinking about what you are losing, or will lose, in divorce, than appreciating what you have? Divorce shines a bright light on our attachments to external things and the meaning we assign to them. But what is it that you really own? What are the things that a court, an ex-spouse, or a loss of income cannot take away? In this episode, Steve discusses how the meaning we give to things can hinder our ability to move beyond divorce. He also explores the importance of becoming aware of what we truly own. Tune in to learn how to shift your focus from loss to appreciation and recognize the intrinsic values that remain unaffected by divorce.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

The Divorce-Scarcity-Mindset poses the risk of major costs and ramifications lasting much longer than the final decisions over marital property, custody, and support agreements. Acting from a scarcity mindset attracts more scarcity to our lives and blocks our ability to reach the full potential the divorce challenge is affording us. In this episode, Steve shares how his scarcity mindset inhibited him and offers perspectives to help you recognize and overcome divorce scarcity thoughts and actions. Tune in to learn how to shift from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance, allowing you to fully embrace the opportunities for growth and transformation that divorce can provide.




Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Many men sacrifice their health, energy, time, and joy to accumulate money and career success, labeling that as prosperity. They don't realize that true prosperity encompasses all these elements. Divorce can reverse wealth and alter the perception of prosperity. In this episode, Steve talks about how to reclaim full prosperity—beyond money—while embracing the "unfamiliar path" to divorce recovery. Tune in to learn strategies for achieving holistic prosperity and navigating your recovery journey with a renewed perspective.


Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

In this episode, Steve discusses the steps he's taken with past child support hearings and the different approach he's taking for this upcoming hearing. He introduces a universal law—The Law of Synchronicity—as he prepares for whatever outcome results. Tune in to learn about this new approach and how embracing the Law of Synchronicity can help you navigate the uncertainties of child support hearings and other legal challenges.




Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Contentious divorces can easily revert to weaponizing kids and money as forms of mass emotional destruction against the other. This form of divorce bullying can have major impacts on your health and well-being, as well as create lasting impacts on your children and finances. You may feel helpless, angry, disgusted, or in disbelief that your ex would do this. In this episode, Steve talks about how to recognize and work through this difficult situation. Tune in to learn strategies for managing the emotional toll and protecting yourself and your children from the harmful effects of divorce bullying.




Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Mediation affords you the opportunity to avoid the default process of family court. It allows you to shorten the decision cycle so you can begin transitioning and healing in a healthy way. Yet, many couples find it difficult to approach mediation due to aspects of loss, unresolved emotions, distrust, fear, and possibly disgust and contempt. This is understandable, given the high level of tension in the relationship, but these aspects should not derail you from the opportunity at hand. In this episode, Steve provides tips you can follow prior to mediation to help you achieve more productive outcomes from your sessions. Tune in to learn how to prepare for mediation and maximize its benefits.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

One question I grappled with during the early part of my divorce was, "Am I in love, or am I being loyal?" Struggling marriages that have entered the invisible divorce phase can often hold together through strings of loyalty. In this episode, Steve speaks about how he discovered a key answer to his question, "Why did my marriage end?" He shares his story as an example of how loyalty influenced his decision to stay in the marriage and continues to influence decisions even after divorce. Tune in to understand the role of loyalty in relationships and how it can shape the choices you make during and after divorce.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Seldom do two people simultaneously recognize that the marriage is not working and agree that it's best to end it. Instead, what typically happens is one person disengages during the marriage and then informs the other that it's over. This dynamic, and the resulting emotions, trigger "The Ending of Unequals." In this episode, Steve discusses this dynamic and explores the common responses from each person involved. Tune in to gain insight into the emotional complexities of such endings and how to navigate them.



For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions.

You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.