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00:00 Understanding Dysregulation and Its Components 05:02 The Role of the Conscious Mind 12:37 Exploring the Subconscious Mind 14:32 The Nervous System's Impact on Regulation 21:54 Aligning the Three Parts for Regulation

Summary

In this episode of ADHD with Jenna Free, we discuss the intricate relationship between the conscious mind, subconscious mind, and nervous system in the context of dysregulation, particularly for individuals with ADHD. I explain how these three components can often be in conflict, leading to feelings of being stuck or overwhelmed. I emphasize the importance of aligning these parts to achieve emotional regulation and personal growth, providing insights into how to navigate this complex journey.

Takeaways

• Dysregulation can feel like an internal tug of war.
• The conscious mind is aware of the need for change.
• The subconscious holds ingrained beliefs that can hinder progress.
• The nervous system reacts automatically to perceived threats.
• Aligning the conscious, subconscious, and nervous system is crucial for regulation.
• Understanding the invisible barriers is the first step to overcoming them.
• It's normal to feel resistance when trying to slow down.
• Creating new belief systems is essential for personal growth.
• Dysregulated behavior often stems from underlying beliefs.
• Patience and grace are necessary in the journey towards regulation.

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00:00 Understanding Rushing in ADHD 08:50 The Three Levels of Rushing 18:23 Breaking the Cycle of Rushing

Summary

In this episode, I discuss the common trait of rushing among dysregulated ADHDers. I emphasize the importance of slowing down to improve executive functioning and offer practical strategies to interrupt the cycle of rushing (yes it's a cycle and we are trapped in it!) We go over the three levels of rushing—physical, mental, and impatience—and highlight the need for self-awareness and mindfulness in making changes. I'm excited to see what you notice if you choose to practice these shifts this week!

Takeaways

• Rushing is a major issue for ADHDers (even though a lot of the time it can feel helpful).
• It signals danger to the nervous system, causing dysregulation!
• Rushing skews our perception of time and creates a scarcity mindset.
• There are three levels of rushing: physical, mental, and impatience.
• Challenging the belief of 'not enough time' is crucial.
• You can achieve more by doing less when regulated.

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00:00 Understanding Overstimulation and Dysregulation 10:49 Coping with Overstimulation 24:16 Long-term Regulation Strategies

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, we dive into the concepts of overstimulation and dysregulation for ADHDers. I explain the differences of overstimulation and dysregulation and where they overlap. It's important to understand these two concepts so you can make the best decisions in how to cope. Dealing with the immediacy of overstimulation and long term dysregulation will improve your quality of life 100 fold!

Takeaways

• Overstimulation is a state where the brain receives too much sensory information.
• Dysregulation occurs when the nervous system is imbalanced, often stuck in fight or flight mode.
• Dysregulation can make individuals more sensitive to overstimulation.
• Understanding the difference between overstimulation and dysregulation is crucial for effective coping.
• You deserve to have a life that's easier and more enjoyable.

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00:00 Understanding the Fight or Flight Response 03:24 The Impact of Chronic Stress on Consumption 09:14 Balancing Consumption and Creation 14:35 Finding Fulfillment Through Creation

Summary

In this episode I explore the effects of the fight or flight response on consumption behaviors. I discuss how these stress responses lead to overconsumption of food, goods, and content as a means of coping. I share the importance of balancing consumption with creation to foster well-being and self-regulation. We wrap this episode encouraging you to reflect on your consumption habits.

Takeaways

• Overconsumption is often a coping mechanism for dysregulation.
• Dopamine-seeking behavior can lead to unhealthy consumption patterns.
• Balancing consumption with creation is crucial for mental health.
• Creation fosters a sense of purpose and self-esteem.

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00:00 Understanding the Fawn Response in ADHD 02:59 The Impact of Survival Mode on Relationships 07:07 Breaking Free from the Fawn Response 12:11 Practical Strategies to Overcome People-Pleasing 19:16 Embracing Vulnerability and Taking Up Space

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I explore the often-overlooked fawn response in survival mode. I discuss how this response manifests in behaviors like people-pleasing and avoiding conflict, and how to recognize and address these patterns for regulation and increased executive functioning. I go over practical strategies for you to break free from the fawn response, advocate for yourself, and foster genuine connections with others.

Takeaways

• Fawn is a response to feeling unsafe and is often overlooked.
• Being in survival mode can lead to people-pleasing behaviors.
• Setting boundaries is essential for regulation
• Asking for help is a crucial step in overcoming the fawn response.
• Taking up space and expressing needs creates connections.
• Practicing vulnerability can lead to stronger relationships.
• It's safe to say no and prioritize your own needs.

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00:00 Understanding ADHD and Rest 00:49 The Impact of Dysregulation on Enjoyment 04:26 Chronic Fight or Flight and Its Effects 07:44 Challenging Thoughts and Beliefs 11:08 Nervous System Regulation Strategies 13:56 All or Nothing Thinking in Rest 16:35 Finding Balance in Rest and Productivity 19:30 Transitioning Between Tasks 25:51 Overcoming Barriers to Rest

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I dive into rest and ADHD, exploring the struggle between dysregulation and the ability to relax. I get into how external factors often get blamed for difficulties in resting, while the real issues may lie within our thoughts, beliefs, and nervous system regulation. I talk about how to challenge all-or-nothing thinking, the importance of finding balance in daily life, and practical strategies for achieving a more regulated state that allows for genuine enjoyment and rest.

Takeaways

• Rest is often hard for those with ADHD due to dysregulation.
• Chronic fight or flight states hinder relaxation.
• External factors are not the sole cause of our inability to rest.
• Nervous system regulation is crucial for relaxation.
• Slowing down can help manage dysregulation.
• All or nothing thinking can prevent effective rest.
• Regulated rest is about balance, not extremes.
• Rest should be integrated into daily life, not seen as a reward.

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00:00 Understanding ADHD Regulation 05:25 Dysregulation and Emotional Responses 08:39 The Impact of Fight or Flight on ADHD 11:30 The Theory of ADHD Regulation 14:32 The Dysregulation Cycle 17:16 Finding Balance in Regulation 20:17 Three Types of Regulation 23:07 The Path to a Regulated Life

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I discuss the complexities of ADHD regulation, diving into the dysregulation cycle and the impact of being in a constant state of fight or flight. I share the need for a three prong approach that includes nervous system regulation, cognitive restructuring, and behavioral changes to achieve lasting change.

Takeaways

• ADHD regulation involves more than just nervous system regulation.
• Emotional dysregulation is often a symptom of a system in fight or flight.
• Understanding the dysregulation cycle is crucial for change.
• Working on your thinking and beliefs can help alleviate dysregulation.
• Regulation work is a gentle but long-term process.

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00:00 Introduction to ADHD and Food Relationships 04:29 Understanding Unhealthy Relationships with Food 09:47 My Personal Journey with Food and ADHD 15:58 Principles of Intuitive Eating 21:36 The Role of Dysregulation in Eating Habits 24:36 Workshop Announcement!!

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I discuss the complex relationship between ADHD and food. I dive into the challenges faced by ADHDers regarding their eating habits, including unhealthy relationships with food, binge eating, and the impact of dysregulation. I share my personal journey from dieting to intuitive eating and how you can use intuitive eating and regulation to begin building a more balanced and healthy relationship with food.

Takeaways

• ADHD can significantly impact your relationship with food.
• Many individuals with ADHD struggle with binge eating and dysregulation.
• A healthy relationship with food involves nourishment and enjoyment, not punishment.
• Intuitive eating can help create balance in eating habits.
• Ditching diet culture is essential for a healthy food relationship.
• No foods should be labeled as good or bad to avoid moral judgments.
• Regular eating can help regulate emotions and prevent binge eating.

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00:00 Understanding Negative Self-Talk in ADHD 04:00 The Impact of Negative Self-Talk on Regulation 07:26 Shifting from Negative to Neutral Self-Talk 12:01 Learning from Mistakes and Reflection 16:51 Embracing a Kinder Inner Dialogue

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I discuss the pervasive negative self-talk among ADHDers. I explore the reasons behind this, and share how it stems from a dysregulated state and serves as a misguided defense mechanism. I provide practical strategies for you to shift your mindset from negative self-talk to a more neutral perspective, encouraging self-compassion and reflection on mistakes without harsh judgment. The conversation highlights the importance of awareness and the need to create a positive mindset to improve overall well-being and reduce ADHD symptoms.

Takeaways

• Most ADHDers experience a lot of negative self-talk.
• Negative self-talk serves as a misguided motivator.
• You are safe without negative self-talk.
• Shifting to neutral thinking can help reduce self-criticism.
• Curiosity about mistakes leads to better understanding.
• You deserve to live a life that's enjoyable and easier.
• Negative self-talk hinders personal growth and happiness.

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Chapters

00:00 Understanding ADHD and Money 02:16 Survival Mode and Short-Term Thinking 03:39 Shopping as a Coping Mechanism 10:27 The Rush and Its Impact on Spending 13:17 Dysregulation and Financial Avoidance 18:29 Facing Financial Discomfort 23:44 Balancing Short-Term and Long-Term Goals

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I discuss the complex relationship between ADHD and money management from a dysregulation lens. I explore how ADHD (particularly dysregulated ADHD) can lead to impulsive spending, avoidance of financial responsibilities, and the impact of survival mode on long-term financial planning. We are talking about why money can be hard and what we can do to make it better.

Takeaways

• ADHD can complicate money management due to impulsivity.
• Survival mode affects our ability to think long-term about finances.
• Shopping can provide temporary relief from dysregulation.
• Rushing leads to poor financial decisions and increased spending.
• Avoidance of financial responsibilities can create a cycle of shame.
• Slowing down can lead to more thoughtful spending decisions.
• Urgent purchases often indicate dysregulation.
• Balancing short-term enjoyment with long-term goals is crucial.
• Mindfulness and regulation are key to improving financial health.

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