Joe Saavedra, is an MFT and sex addiction treatment provider who is passionate about working with people who have the experiences that come with addictive and compulsive behavior. Joe has a true healer’s heart and spirit, and works in an integrity and empathy based model. Today, he talks about the importance of group work, his own story of addiction and recovery, and why there is true power in relational intimacy with others.

TAKEAWAYS:

[3:02] Joe does a Men’s Sex Addiction 101 Drop-In Group on Sex and Relationship Healing. The group is successful because it is a great support system, and helps men find healthy connections in a safe and interactive virtual setting. The goal is to build relationships and help people realize they are not alone.

[6:44] The goal with Joe’s group work is to get the men into a pattern of activities that stabilize them, and provides a sense of hope.

[9:30] Rogerian group therapy is the type of therapy that is non judgemental, accepting and loving.

[13:35] The groups are gender separate, because they seek to create a safe space for the addict and keep an open forum. There is also support provided for the betrayed partner.

[18:58] Joe has a background in the railroad industry, and during his time working on the railway his own addiction blossomed. He struggled with addiction, and it adversely affected his marriage. He got help and remarried his wife, and continues to take personal inventory of his own actions and stays accountable to others.

[26:24] The DIY client thinks they don’t need any help, but in order to truly heal, we need others in our life.

RESOURCES:

Sex and Relationship Healing

@RobWeissMSW

Sex Addiction 101

Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men

Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency

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Men’s Sex Addiction 101 Drop-In Discussion Group

Emmaus Road

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QUOTES:

• “It’s the therapist's presence that makes the difference.”