The Thais Gibson Podcast

All Insecure Attachment Styles: 8 Red Flags to Watch Out for When Dating


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Ever found yourself deep in a relationship, only to realize it was never aligned with what you truly needed? Dating with insecure attachment can make it easy to miss the warning signs—and even easier to justify them.

In this powerful episode, Thais Gibson walks you through 8 essential red flags to look for in the early stages of dating. Whether you're anxiously attached, fearful avoidant, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you break out of painful patterns and make empowered choices in love.

šŸŽÆ In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
  • Why ā€œrespectā€ is a foundational non-negotiable—and how to spot subtle disrespect early

  • The root reason couples build resentment (and how to avoid it)

  • How to tell the difference between privacy and secrecy

  • What lack of individuation looks like and why it threatens long-term compatibility

  • Why unhealed baggage from past relationships often leads to future pain

  • The psychological signs of controlling behavior that may be easy to overlook

    šŸ‘©ā€šŸ« Meet the Host

    Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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