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Ep 230: In this episode, Allison and Ceara share all the fun things happening in their lives right now. Their summers are off to a big start so we wanted to dedicate a full episode to catching our community up on everything.

Allison wrapped up her time in Tulum, Mexico and is moving to Haarlem, Netherlands. Before the move, Allison and Clay stop in Omaha for a few days to see family, work at her store and have her gender reveal party. She shares behind the scenes of how she logistically made it possible to do an international move with only a few weeks heads up including signing a lease on a place she hadn’t seen in person and relocating her dog to another country. 

Ceara goes to Vegas for 48 hours for a friend’s birthday and shares all the crazy details of what happened. Then she continues onward to her next trip to visit her parents at their new house. 

TAKEAWAYS:

• Positive energy can attract good experiences and people.
• Planning events can lead to unexpected challenges.
• Nesting can create a sense of urgency and productivity.
• Traveling with pets requires extra planning and paperwork.
• Cultural adjustments are part of moving to a new country.
• Unexpected kindness from strangers can change experiences.
• Having a ritual can help switch negative energy to positive.
• The importance of living in the moment and enjoying life.

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MENTIONS:

Hilton Polo Towers - Vegas Hotel 

Nicky Reardon’s Video - How to Turn Any Bad Day into A Good Day

McKenna’s Video Pronouncing Dutch Words - TikTok

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Ep 229: In this episode, Allison and Ceara play a fun game of Something You’d Know About Me If... where they reveal little things you’d know about them if you were their roommate, coworker, childhood friend, and more. 

They also catch up on all the latest going on in their lives. Allison’s moving from Tulum to The Netherlands and talking all the challenges that’s coming with it. Ceara talks about a recent book club meet-up and upcoming summer travels. They also recap recent highlights like a homemade pizza night and some exciting business wins. 

From sharing childhood memories to comparing road trip styles, it’s a cozy, full-circle conversation that feels like catching up with your best friends.

TAKEAWAYS:

• Unexpected challenges can arise during major life changes.
• You learn a lot about someone by how they act in everyday moments — from road trips to birthdays to haunted houses.
• They discuss the little quirks they have around living with others.
• They share what they both would spend their lottery winnings on if they won. 
• Understanding what makes you happiest — and crankiest — is key to knowing yourself (and being a better friend or roommate).

RELATED EPISODES:

Episode # 94/95 - Answering Vogue 73 Questions (Part 1 and 2)

Episode # 179 - Get to Know Us and Our Podcast (2024 Update!)

MENTIONS:

Get A Free Download of the Prompts - On Our Website

Ceara’s Book Club Books - Just For the Summer by Abby Jimenez, The Wedding People by Alison Espach

Dream Investment Property - Mar Vista Farms

OPI Nail Polish Filmmaker

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Ep 228: In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share some major life updates! Allison is pregnant and just finished her first trimester. She shares behind-the-scenes about how she got pregnant, the first ultrasound, and how she’s feeling about everything. Allison also has an exciting update about her store in Omaha (1404 Collective).

Ceara is celebrating her 1 year wedding anniversary this weekend. Her and Connor are planning a special trip back to Charleston (where they got married) for later this summer. 

In the WWYBD part of the episode, we discuss destinations for a solo healing trip, how to start an influencer account without caring about people’s judgment, discuss the pros and cons of working from home, and our thoughts on a situation where someone was feeling left out of the group. 

QUESTIONS ANSWERED:

• Are there any places you suggest to travel to for grief/ anxiety healing?
• What advice do you have to overcome the possible judgement from your friends and family to start an influencer account on instagram? 
• Change is scary. I want to try something new but I’m scared of losing the flexibility of my current job and I’m worried the grass isn’t greener on the other side.
• Being a gay guy, I gravitate towards the girls. Love them to death and truly feel the love back, but on the contrary, I think it’s really easy to be left out being the only guy. It makes me wonder if it’s truly because of my gender, or if I need better friends. Any advice?

MENTIONS:

Donating to St. Louis Tornado 

123 Lagree Program

Allison’s Store in Omaha - 1404 Collective

Allison’s Pregnancy Instagram Announcement

Allison Green Bikini Top Instagram Post

Bonus Episode with Pregnancy BTS Talk available on Patreon

Camino de Santiago Facebook Group

Lazy Millionaire Video - Money Over Being Cringe  

Video About Cringe Mountain 

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Ep 227: In this episode, Allison and Ceara break down their favorite tools for better understanding yourself and navigating personal growth. They cover everything from personality frameworks like Human Design, Astrology, the Enneagram, and Myers-Briggs, to practices like journaling, somatic awareness, therapy, and solo travel. The conversation highlights how these tools can provide clarity, build self-awareness, and help you make more aligned decisions.

They also share life updates—including Allison’s big announcement, Ceara’s recent work trip to Palm Beach, and the importance of reaching out to the right people. Whether you’re in a season of change or simply looking to deepen your self-understanding, this episode is packed with actionable insights and personal reflections to support your journey.

TAKEAWAYS:

• Self-discovery is a lifelong process — tools like Human Design, astrology, and the Enneagram can offer helpful frameworks.
• Getting clear on what you want attracts aligned opportunities.
• Clarity helps you recognize and act on the right connections, jobs, and experiences.
• Somatic practices and journaling are powerful for emotional processing
• Tuning into your body and thoughts helps uncover patterns and release stuck energy.
• Solo travel builds confidence and clarity.
• Being in new environments can reveal who you are without outside influence.
• Therapy and coaching provide objective feedback.
• Having someone reflect your blind spots can accelerate personal growth.

RELATED EPISODES:

Episode # 20 - Following Your Intuition with Hyper-intuitive Didi Beck

Episode # 134 - Human Design 101: Unlock Your Life’s Purpose w/ Rebekah Joy

MENTIONS:

Rebekah - Human Design Coach

StrengthsQuest for Students

Human Design

Myers-Briggs / 16 Personalities

Apps: CoStar, The Pattern, Dimensional

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Ep 226: In this episode, Allison and Ceara deep dive into the energetics of chasing versus attraction and how it applies to relationships, career, friendships, money, and self-worth. We share why it’s important to align your energy to a place of abundance and confidence in order to obtain the opportunities, jobs, situations, experiences and friendship that you want. 

Chasing these things typically leads to exhaustion, feeling worthless, burned out, and fearful. We share tangible tips, quotes and personal lessons that have helped us overcome “chasing” so that we could make space for better, more aligned things to come our way instead.

TAKEAWAYS:

• The best energy you can be in is knowing “I will be good no matter what. I will attract what’s meant for me no matter what” 
• You don’t have to beg for what’s meant for you. When you align, it arrives.
• Chasing comes from fear. Attraction is rooted in trust and self-worth.
• The more you know yourself, the less you tolerate what isn’t for you.
• Slow down, tune in, and let life come to you.
• You’re not behind — you’re being prepared for something that fits you better.

RELATED EPISODES:

Ep 105: Career Advice, How To Change Careers and Burnout with Ashley Stahl

Ep 125: Why You Might Be Overwhelmed and How To Ground Yourself When Life Gets Stressful

Ep 136: Is It Time To Close A Friendship Chapter?

MENTIONS:

Ceara Favorite Restaurants in London:

The Buttery - Breakfast in London

Dishoom - Indian food

Bourough Market - Food Market

Nate Bargatze - SNL Skit Washington’s Dream

Why We Call It “Soccer” 

Allison Spa Rec in Tulum - Quinto Elemento

Allison Money Audiobook Rec - Love Money, Money Loves You

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Ep 225: Ceara and Allison share fun ideas for making the most of the spring and summer months. From summer rodeos, to renaissance fairs, to convertible rides, they give their best ideas for activities that make the warmer weather feel more intentional and memorable.

In their catch-up segment, they share some life updates and share some upcoming travel plans. Allison is heading back to Omaha, while Ceara is off to London to celebrate Connor’s 30th birthday. They also laugh about a failed TikTok trend Ceara attempted. 

If you're looking for realistic ways to enjoy the warmer weather and add more intention to your daily life, this conversation covers it all.

TAKEAWAYS:

• Having a seasonal bucket list helps to appreciate the time of year.
• Rodeos and summer festivals are essential for a fulfilling summer.
• Live music experiences are often more enjoyable in smaller venues.
• Creating weekly rituals can help break the monotony of life.
• Romanticizing mundane tasks can enhance enjoyment in daily life.
• Sustainable living is a gradual process that can be enjoyable.

RELATED EPISODES:

Episode # 126 - Our Summer Bucket List

Episode # 183 - Bucket List for An Americana Summer

MENTIONS:

Thermacell Mosquito Repellent 

Bidet - Tushy 3.0

Waxing Gal Video 

First Wax Free at European Wax Center with Code CEARA9458 (Ceara recommends Kara at Richmond Heights location) 

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Ep 224: WWYBD (what would your bestie do) is where we answer listener-submitted questions. You can submit questions any time via our website, and then we pull questions to fit a specific theme. 

In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share about what they’ve been up to lately. Allison feels like her nervous system is more regulated than ever due to slowing down, less screen time, outsourcing work tasks, studying Ayurveda, and limiting caffeine and alcohol. Ceara has been house hunting after four years at her current home in St. Louis, is looking forward to a picnic in the park over the weekend and is on week 10/12 of her current workout program 1-2-3 Lagree. 

WWYBD QUESTIONS ASKED:

• Can you be friends with someone who’s also friends with someone you really don’t like?
• How do I stay working in corporate America without feeling like just a number or that I’m sacrificing my sanity?
• I am having a complete quarter life crisis. How do you balance the reality that life isn’t fair, and that success requires relentless effort, while simultaneously watching others in your circle seem to progress with far less struggle?
• How do you decide where you want to live? My fiancé is a pilot and gets to choose one of 80 locations around the country to be stationed in.

RELATED EPISODES:

Ep # 171 - WWYBD?! Tough Love On Victim Mentality, Relocating Across The World and Growing Apart From Friends

Ep # 197 - WWYBD?! Work-Travel Balance, Realities of Adulting, Leveraging Debt and Independence in Relationships

MENTIONS:

Ceara Workout Program - 1-2-3 Lagree from Ripped Coaching

Shocking House Listing - Criminal Mid Century Modern Flip

McCall Capozzi’s Perspective Video 

Ayurveda - Free Dosha Quiz 

Allison Oregon Recommendation - Manzanita

Submit Question for WWYBD - On Our Website

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Ep 223: Ceara is joined by Kierra Maggs to talk all things remote work, lifestyle design, and entrepreneurship. Kierra shares her story of leaving corporate life, navigating burnout, and starting her own social media agency while traveling the world as a digital nomad. They dive into how to find aligned clients, pitch yourself confidently, and design a career that fits the life you actually want to live. Whether you’re dreaming of working from abroad or just craving more freedom in your 9-to-5, this episode is packed with inspiration, practical advice, and travel recs for hidden gem destinations.

TAKEAWAYS:

• Kierra shares how she recognized misalignment and pivoted into building a career she actually loves.
• How to make location independence in your career a reality.
• How Kierra went from working in corporate to running her own social media agency.
• Why networking and outreach are crucial in landing your first clients.
• The importance of vision boards for goal setting.
• The importance of finding inspiration in other successful entrepreneurs.
• Learning a high-ticket skill can open doors to remote opportunities.
• Pitching yourself effectively is crucial in any career.
• Surrounding yourself with supportive and ambitious people is key to success.
• Taking action, even in small steps, is essential for progress.
• Networking and following up are vital in building your career.

RELATED EPISODES:

Ep # 199 - Life as a Travel Filmmaker with Ryan Tu: Creativity, Travel, Gratitude and The Art of Authentic Storytelling

Ep # 203 - How Taking Risks In Work, Play and Travel Led Morgan Zanotti to Selling Her Business For $200 Million

MENTIONS:

Kierra Magg’s Socials: Instagram, TikTok

Kierra’s Agency: Limitless Social Agency 

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Ep 222: Allison is joined by her partner of 5+ years, Clay, who recently moved from Omaha to join her in Tulum. We discuss our journey as a couple, sharing insights on our relationship dynamics, personal growth, and the challenges we’ve overcome to deepen our understanding of the other. We reflect on our past, the importance of honest communication, the impact of taking a no-contact break and how we navigated coming back together.

TAKEAWAYS:

• When moving in together, move into an entirely new place 
• Both partners need to check their egos to avoid misunderstandings.
• Personal growth can sometimes lead to distance in a relationship.
• Communication is key to maintaining a strong partnership. 
• Financial struggles can strain relationships significantly.
• Taking a break can provide clarity and personal growth.
• Honesty and open communication are vital in relationships.
• Understanding each other's needs requires ongoing dialogue.
• Healing is a continuous journey, not a destination.
• Mutual support is essential during tough times.
• Love and commitment can evolve through shared experiences.

RELATED EPISODES:

Ep # 19 - A Life Partner: Loyalty, Independence and Growing Together with Clay

Ep # 29 - An Honest Conversation About Drinking with Clay and Connor

Ep # 30 - Clean and Healthy Living with Clay and Connor

MENTIONS:

Allison Tulum Hotel Rec - Panamera

Clay’s Personal Training Website - Conquer Your Mind Training

Current Netflix Binge - 1883

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Ep 221: In this episode, Allison and Ceara candidly chat about creative ideas for bringing your loved ones together. First we talk about general hospitality guidelines so you can be a better host and guest. Then we each share ideas of favorite gatherings we’ve hosted, been a guest at, or are hoping to host soon! We also give pointers about how to add special touches that are budget friendly and don’t require that much effort, but the intention will be remembered. 

TAKEAWAYS:

• It's important to consider the purpose of a gathering.
• Establishing a theme can enhance the experience.
• Guest dynamics matter, especially in smaller groups.
• Low-key hangouts can be just as meaningful as planned events.
• Bringing a thoughtful gift shows appreciation to the host.
• Offering to bring something can help the host.
• Fresh bread or gourmet treats are great gift ideas.
• Helping clean up shows appreciation for the host.
• Communication about arrival times is crucial.
• Hosts should greet guests and provide guidance.
• Setting expectations can ease social anxiety.
• Having a clear end time can help manage gatherings.

RELATED EPISODES:

Ep 61: How To Plan A Trip: Choosing A Destination, Finding Hidden Gems, and More

Ep 102: Hobbies: Why They’re Important, Our Favorite Hobbies and Ideas to Try

Ep 129: How to Make (and Maintain) Friendships

Ep 130: Finding Aligned Friends and Activities To Do Together

Ep 135: Navigating Friendship Growing Pains and Moving Forward Together

Ep 136: Is It Time To Close A Friendship Chapter (WWYBD?!)

MENTIONS:

Allison’s Yoga Mat - Oko Living (Code ‘allisonwetig’ 10% off)

@Talliia on TikTok Movie Night 

Our Favorite Chocolates: Hu Kitchen

Allison Post on Lemon 8 of “Fun Holidays“ by Season

Ceara Game App Rec - Flamingo

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SOCIAL LINKS:

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