Ever have a a narcissist tell you that no one likes you or that you're so hard to deal with? Why does the narcissist want you to hate yourself, anyway? Why do narcissists want you to think everyone hates you? What purpose does it serve for the narc and how can you get through it without completely losing your sense of self?
Insecurity sucks. And for a narcissist, it's a secret that most people aren't even aware 0f - but while the narcissist has the ability to appear completely together, in reality, he's a big ball of insecurity and self-hate.
What you may not know is that it's also a narcissist's goal to make you feel bad about yourself.
Why would that be the case? It's all part of how their brains work - and it's part of the gaslighting and manipulation so many narcissists inflict on the people they're involved in relationship with.
You might feel like you’re all alone when you’re dealing with a narcissist in a toxic relationship, but the truth is that getting involved with one of these “Jekyll and Hyde types” is something a lot of people go through at one time or another. Sometimes, though, people have to endure so much soul-numbing mental abuse from their partners, which can have a powerfully and profoundly negative effect on them that lasts a lifetime.
After a painful episode of gaslighting or other forms of narcissistic abuse, it’s sometimes very difficult to bounce back from the mental abuse you had to endure and your self-esteem plummets because of it.
Not only that; the torturous mental abuse you were subjected to by a narcissist is usually an attack on your personal character - an emotional assault commited all too often by your narcissistic partner.
He needs to make you feel worthless and insecure, but you don’t understand why - you’d be his biggest fan if he’d let you.
Why does a narcissist want to make you feel worthless and desperate?
Why Narcissists Want You to Think Everyone Hates You and How to Make Everyone Love You
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