Duane from Dad Surviving Divorce is here today discussing coparenting with a toxic ex and offering device on how to divorce a narcissist when you have children involved - as well as how to make sure your kids stay emotionally healthy during and after the divorce.

Duane says he started his YouTube channel to help survivors of narcissistic abuse back in May of last year. He survived a 22-year marriage to a narcissitic female. He has three kids with his abuser and has described his toxic relationship as "a nightmare." Thanks to a strong core group of friends and his own determination, he survived the divorce and continues to co-parent with the narcissist.

In DSD's case, it appears that he is coparenting with a covert narcissist.

He tells me that, in his job, he does a lot of one-on-one mentoring so he started his channel to help other people who have been thru the same kind of hell as he has - and he noted that he understood people could break under the pressure of a toxic relationship, so he wanted to provide a place to talk about it from the "divorced with kids" perspective. He had followed various YouTubers, including Richard Grannon, but could only find "non parents" out there at the time - he wanted to give back

wanted to make something positive out of his experiences.

In our interview today, Duane shares his advice for co-parenting and parallel parenting with a narcissist, as well as a few tips on divorcing a narcissist when kids are involved. If you could use some help with coparenting with a narcissist after divorce, this is the video for you! You don't want to miss this one!

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Dad Surviving Divorce on Co-parenting After Narcissistic Abuse and Divorcing a Narcissist

Divorcing a narcissist is hell - if the person has NPD or another cluster b personality disorder, it's the worst. You'll deal with constant invalidation and emotional triggers all over the place.

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What is the dog whistle effect and how do narcissists use it against you? The term comes from the term Dog-whistle politics, but it is also a term that applies to narcissists as an extreme form of gaslighting.

Dog-whistle politics is defined as "political messaging employing coded language that appears to mean one thing to the general population but has an additional, different or more specific resonance for a targeted subgroup. The phrase is often used as a pejorative, because of the inherently deceptive nature of the practice and because the dog-whistle messages are frequently distasteful to the general populace."

Clearly, it is an analogy to a dog whistle, which has a high-frequency sound that is heard by dogs but inaudible to humans. In this video, I'll explain how narcissists use this tactic to manipulate and control their victims and how you can deal with dog whistling effectively.

The Dog Whistle Effect: Extreme Narcissistic Gaslighting and Manipulation

What is the dog whistle effect in gaslighting?

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Being fearless makes you incredibly powerful - but when you're in a toxic relationship with an abusive narcissist, you are often full of fear! Narcissists and people with NPD and other cluster B personality disorders are full of venom and they absolutely LOVE to see you being afraid. In fact, fear is one of their go-to methods to keep you stuck in these toxic abusive relationships.

"I am fearless, therefore I am powerful."

Fear is "False Evidence Appearing Real," so do like my kid suggests: Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway!

In this video, I've pulled questions and answers from my recent live stream (all the fluff has been removed!) and I'm sharing them with you for Self-Love Sunday today.

I'll share several tested and proven healing exercises I've developed that work especially well for the various stages of recovery from narcissistic abuse. Exercies include help with getting through the devalue and discard phases, how to stay away when you go no contact and more.

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Q&A: How to Be Fearless During & After Toxic Relationships - SELF LOVE SUNDAY!

Q&A Includes Answers to the Following Questions:

What is my most magical healing tip?

How do you change your perception to change your life?

How do you let go of fear related to the narcissist's attempts to hoover you after the discard?

How do you stop worrying about the narcissist's new supply? How can you let go of the fact that the narcissist looks so happy together with the new supply?

How do you deal with the narcissist attempting to smear campaign and scare you in court?

How do you deal with a narcissist who mirrors you to get what they want?

How do you get over the fear of not being good enough?

How long does it take to get over a narcissist?

How do you explain no contact to a narcissist?

How do I get through splitting up with a narcissist?

How to get over the devastation and feeling like a failure after divorcing a narcissist?

How do you deal with adult children who have been brainwashed by a narcissistic ex spouse?

How do you let go of the negative thoughts in your head after narcissistic abuse?

How do you deal with distracting thoughts?

How do you deal with narcissistic gaslighting and mindgames?

And more.

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The Narcissist's Cycle of Abuse: Psychology of How Narcissists Think (Compilation)

This is a compilation of 6 videos that focuses on the psychology of narcissists and how they tend to follow certain cycles of abuse in their toxic relationships. Learn how narcissists think.

Be sure to watch all the way to the end - you will see the outtro at the end of each video - keep watching as the next video will follow.

Narcissism and the Cycle of Abuse: Psychology and How Narcissists Roll (Compilation)

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The Narcissist's Cycle of Abuse: Psychology of How Narcissists Think (Compilation)

This is a compilation of 6 videos that focuses on the psychology of narcissists and how they tend to follow certain cycles of abuse in their toxic relationships. Learn how narcissists think.

Be sure to watch all the way to the end - you will see the outtro at the end of each video - keep watching as the next video will follow.

Narcissism and the Cycle of Abuse: Psychology and How Narcissists Roll (Compilation)

Discover. Understand. Overcome. It's how smart people change their lives! Subscribe to my channel: vid.io/xoJJ

On this channel, I offer free video coaching to help you discover, understand and overcome narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships! I like to call it toxic relationship rehab. If that sounds good to you, hit that subscribe button.

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Feel like you're walking on eggshells all the time? Does the narcissist always seem to be tearing you down? Constantly fighting invalidation, gaslighting and dealing with trauma bonding?

There's a reason for that: the narcissistic devalue phase.

It's true - narcissists (people with NPD and other cluster b disorders) need you to feel bad about yourself.

The technical definition: de·val·ue

dēˈvalyo͞o/Submit

verb

reduce or underestimate the worth or importance of.

"I resent the way people seem to devalue my achievement"

synonyms: belittle, depreciate, disparage, denigrate, decry, deprecate, treat lightly, discredit, underrate, undervalue, underestimate, deflate, diminish, trivialize, run down

Today, we are going to dig into the emotions and specific kinds of behavior that happen inside of the last and most painful part of the cycle: devaluation and discarding.

Devalue and Discard: The Painful Part of the Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse

You've been walking on eggshells for awhile now, but it doesn't seem to matter to your narcissist.

The narc is no longer even polite to you, much less kind. You often wonder what happened to the person you first met.

Nothing you say, do, think or feel is acceptable and he makes sure you know it.

Everything you do elicits the same kinds of responses: anger, irritation, "justified" rage.

If you call a narcissist on their crap or you prove one wrong, watch out. That's when the narcissist will go ballistic, pulling no punches, digging deep to find a way to hurt you.

The :Narcissist Devalues You: Why Narcissists Need You to Feel Minimized and Invalidated

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5 Identifiable Toxic Relationship Patterns You See in Narcissists in Relationships

You're dealing with manipulation, gaslighting, emotional abuse, psychological abuse - and maybe even physical domestic violence when you're dealing with someone with NPD. Knowledge is power - and that's why I'm sharing this with you today.

We all know the standard toxic relationship pattern that narcissists use. First, they love bomb and idealize you. Then they devalue and discard you. Then they hoover you back in - right?

This happens in varying iterations and it happens often inside the same relationship over and over for decades sometimes. But outside of that basic skeleton, are narcissists all the same? Are there other identifiable relationship patterns with narcissists?

That's what we're discussing today at QueenBeeing.com - Do narcissists follow the same relationship patterns in every relationship? Narcissists and people with NPD tend to develop their favorite strategies for getting what they want from other people - and yeah, they do tend to repeat them over and over again, especially if the other person cooperates on any level.

Narcissistic Abuse is a Cycle: 5 Toxic Relationship Patterns Narcissists Display

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Narcissists are known for being in love with themselves, their money and getting lots of attention. But they also use money to control their sources of narcissistic supply, especially those closest to them. In this video, I'll discuss Narcissists and Money: Love, Control and Financial Abuse.

Plus, we'll cover:

Defining Financial Abuse

How a Narcissist Abuses You Through Your Money

Shocking Financial Abuse Facts

How Financial Abuse Begins

Signs You Might Be Experiencing Financial Abuse

How to Deal With Financial Abuse (8-Step Plan)

Useful Resources for Financial Abuse Victims

And how narcissists deal with money and how they use it to control their victims. Narcissists want YOUR money, they want their money - and they'll take any money they can get. Narcissists steal money from people they know, and people they don't - depending on where they fall on the so-called spectrum. And sadly, narcissists rob you of your money every chance they get.

And what do you get out of the deal? Trauma bonding and invalidation, courtesy of your NPD-afflicted partner,

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Are you tired of letting a narcissist control you? Do you want your life back? Are you ready to TAKE it? This is how you take back your power from a narcissist in a toxic relationship.

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Being in a relationship with a narcissist on any level can make you feel like you need tools - a strategy, at least - to help you get through it. You'll find yourself researching ways to deal with narcissists and their gaslighting attempts, and you might even manage to become a bit of an expert on the topic.

But what do you do when you are ready to take back your power from the narcissist? Well, you start with these seven steps. You use the law of attraction to your advantage. You combat trauma bonding and CPTSD with strength and focus. You push away manipulation and invalidation from someone who has NPD or another cluster b personality disorder.

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When you understand how narcissist think and what their perspective looks like, you can change the way you deal with them - which will help you to take control of the narcissist in a way that makes your life easier.

In this video, How Narcissists Think: 7 Ways Narcissists See the World and What That Means for You, I'll fill you in on exactly how narcissists function emotionally and how they see the world.

This will help you to better understand the narcissist in your life - and if you stick around to the end, I'l share a secret tip on how to make any narcissist do what you want.

This is how narcissists think and why they do what they do!

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