We are talking about boundaries for the anxious attachment style. And not to wait around looking for the magical secure attachment style. If you don't know your strongest attachment style you can find out with the link below. And the dating app I'm a part of it below also.

Attachment Quiz:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Blind'a Dating App:

https://www.getblinda.com/