We know betrayal has a massive impact on the betrayed spouse. But what about the betrayer?

Are they really impacted as well?  Do they really feel the impact of what they have done?

As the one who has been betrayed, this episode may be sensitive. After all, you have suffered greatly.

But the betrayer also has ramifications in the aftermath of betrayal. It's not always just because they were caught. 

As a Christian, the betrayer deals with struggles as well when D-Day has happened. Their secret is out. Now the fallout begins.

In today's episode, I'm sharing the many ways betrayal impacts those who have betrayed their spouse. 

Bring an open mind and heart and allow God to educate and inform you both - the betrayed and the betrayer, so you can heal at the deepest level.

I pray this blesses you!

XO Lisa

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E21: How I betrayed myself: Confession of a past betrayer

E101: How betrayal affects the betrayed spouse. Why does it hurt so much?

E102: How do I begin to heal from his infidelity? Steps to take when you’ve been betrayed.

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There are so many reasons betrayal hurts so deeply. And there are many obstacles you face as the betrayed spouse.

In today's episode, I give you the steps to take when you are faced with the painful reality of his infidelity. 12 obstacles you face and how to begin healing from them. 

This is a followup episode from E101: How betrayal affects the betrayed spouse. Why does it hurt so much?

I pray this helps you begin your journey to complete recovery from the devastation of betrayal trauma.

XO Lisa

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There is no way around it Beautiful. If you've been betrayed by your spouse through p#rnography, sexual addiction, and/or an emotional or physical affair, you are going to experience pain to some degree.

It is said that the effects can be equated to those who have experienced natural disasters - PTSD.

But WHY does it hurt so much?

In today's episode I'm sharing a number of reasons WHY betrayal hurts so much and how it affects the betrayed spouse. 

This is part 1 of 2 for the betrayed spouse. In the 2nd, I will share how to move through each of the topics I share with you today.

Grab your pen and paper Beautiful. There is a lot of information for you in today's episode.

I pray it blesses you and gives you clarity as to what you have been experiencing since his betrayal.

XO,

Lisa

E100:  Moving forward from betrayal: For the betrayed and the betrayer

PS ~ 🎉We just published our 100th episode!!!🎉 And to celebrate, I am including 1 extra coaching session when you purchase one of my coaching packages (individual and/or couple's coaching) Valued at $100🎉 I am just so grateful for each and every one of you who listen, share, comment, and leave a review. This is the reason we are a top 1% global rated podcast and have published our 100th episode.  Thank you again for being the reason Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast exists!  Make sure to grab your coaching package before July 31, 2023 to receive your FREE extra coaching session. I can't wait to meet you and work with you through your journey of healing from betrayal trauma. 

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What is it like to move forward from infidelity as the one who has been betrayed?

How about the betrayer?

Moving forward after betrayal is difficult for both the betrayed as well as the betrayer. You both have unique difficulties that you face and your healing journey is different yet has some similarities. 

What if you could go behind the curtain and see what it is like for both sides? Would it help you in your healing journey?

YES!!!

Today, I am taking you into the journey of what's it's like for the one who has been betrayed as well as the betrayer. I'm giving you an up close and personal view so you can understand what it's like for both sides.  

This will help you in your personal healing process. 

Over the next few episodes, we will explore the difficult topics that each spouse faces when healing from betrayal.

I pray this blesses and helps you!

XO Lisa

PS ~ 🎉We just published our 100th episode!!!🎉 And to celebrate, I am including 1 extra coaching session when you purchase one of my coaching packages (individual and/or couple's coaching) Valued at $100🎉 I am just so grateful for each and every one of you who listen, share, comment, and leave a review. This is the reason we are a top 1% global rated podcast and have published our 100th episode.  Thank you again for being the reason Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast exists!  Make sure to grab your coaching package before July 31, 2023 to receive your FREE extra coaching session. I can't wait to meet you and work with you through your journey of healing from betrayal trauma. 

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It is said that Trust is built and maintained by many small actions over time.

I would also say that Trust can be equated to an insurance policy.

We want the assurance of our spouse loving us, taking care of us, encouraging us, being honest with us, never cheating on us, etc.

But how do you rebuild trust once you've been betrayed?

How do you rebuild trust when your husband has had an affair?

In today's episode, we are talking about 4 ways to trust your husband again and the essential things to look for along the way. 

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You've found out about his affair, you know who the other woman is, you even know where she lives or maybe even her phone number.

You want so badly to confront her.  Should you?

I know what it feels like to have those feelings. Wanting to just speak to her and let her know how she broke my marriage, affected my family, and went against God's will. All the things, right?

But is it really a good idea?  

What does it accomplish?

Will you really get the closure you are looking for?

Will you hear what you want to hear?

Beautiful, in today's episode, we go into this controversial topic and I lay out some really important truths for you to pray about, think through, and seek wise counsel about.

Bring an open mind and open your heart to some deep truths today. 

I pray this blesses and helps you!

XO Lisa

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Infidelity can shatter trust, leaving behind deep emotional wounds. And when combined with the effects of PTSD, it can feel overwhelming. But fear not, for there is hope, and our aim today is to shed light on the symptoms and offer insights on the path to restoration.

If you've ever wondered if you are suffering from PTSD due to trauma from his infidelity, today's episode is for you.

We will explore what betrayal trauma is, the symptoms, how this correlates with PTSD, the symptoms of PTSD and how to begin healing from the trauma you've been struggling with.

I pray this episode brings you hope and healing!

XO Lisa 

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How can I heal my broken heart if I stay in the relationship? How can I heal it if I decide to leave? 

Beautiful, you CAN heal from the brokenness of betrayal even if you stay or leave the relationship. 

Your healing is NOT dependent on the success of the relationship, it really is your decision to move into the healing God has for YOU!

Today's guest, Kandice Bateast - Host of Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Healing Podcast shares her heartbreak experience, how God showed up, the outcome she didn't expect, and her top 5 tips to move you into your healing journey with God at the center.

You can connect with Kandice at the links below:

Podcast link

Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Healing

Website

http://www.kandiceabateast.com

Book

Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose

Facebook Group link

The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook

Freebies

Free Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart

100 Biblical Affirmations to Declare After a Breakup

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• Are you in the early stages of betrayal trauma?

Today I'm interviewing Laurie Bryson, MAC, LPC with Affair Recovery and we are talking about ways to help you move through the early stages of betrayal trauma.

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• Do you find yourself staying very busy since you found out about his affair?

If you resinate with any of those, Beautiful, today's episode is for YOU!

I was there. I took stayed super busy, became a workaholic, focused on everyone but myself just so I could avoid the pain and devastation of my husband's affair. But it eventually caught up with me. I spent 4 days in the cardiac unit because my heart was over stressed, my adrenal glands shut down, my thyroid stopped working, and fatigue took it's toll. 

I don't want you to suffer the same. 

Today I'm going to share 5 signs that you are avoiding the trauma of betrayal and give you ways to start your healing journey.

Grab a latte and join my on the couch. Let's get real and get you on the road to your deserved recovery.

I pray this blesses you!

XO Lisa

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