In Today's episode we're hitting "Trigger City" and talking about how to handle it when your anxious attachment goes haywire. We're diving deep into overthinking, over-apologizing, and those full-on freak-outs. I'll share my top tips on how to respond instead of react and how to calm your mind and body when those triggers hit. Get ready to Identify and understand your triggers and Cultivate that all-important observational awareness.

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Hey Girlies! This week, we're tackling one of the sneakiest triggers for overthinking in relationships: LONELINESS. If you're an anxious girly constantly replaying past convos and overanalyzing texts, this episode is for YOU!  In today’s episode we're talking about how loneliness fuels relationship anxiety and anxious attachment, the difference between social and emotional loneliness and personal stories and tips to overcome these sneaky triggers 

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Today’s episode is ALL about stopping that pesky overthinking in your relationships. We'll tackle how to tell if you’re spiraling or actually thinking critically, recognizing when your nervous system is in freak-out mode and tips to go from overthinking to chill and confident vibes. 

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This week's episode is all about self-sabotage. Yep, been there, sabotaged that—especially with those sweet, secure types who just wanted to love us. If you've been wondering why things seem to implode just when they're getting good, you're not alone, and this episode is here to unpack all of that mess with you. We're talking about the signs, the whys, and how to finally stop self-sabotaging our love lives. 

Plus, I'm sharing some super personal stories and client experiences that'll make you say, "Omg, that's totally me!" So if you're ready to kick those bad habits and start owning your love story, let's get into it!

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Hey Girlies! Today, we're diving deep into healing anxious attachment. In this episode, I’m unpacking my journey, sharing those “aha” moments that totally changed the game for me, and showing you how to find that chill vibe within yourself, no matter your relationship status.

This is your survival guide if you're the type who’s crushing it in life but feeling like your love life is on a rollercoaster. I'm talking taking radical self-responsibility, cutting through the self-doubt, and turning those anxious vibes into total confidence. So, if you're ready to step up, tune in, and transform the way you think about love and yourself, this is for YOU. 

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Welcome back girlies! This episode is all about Attachment Theory basics. I’m breaking down everything you need to know and tips for navigating and healing your attachment style. If you’re new here, I’m Clare and I love helping overachieving, perfectionist girlies who are killing it in their careers but struggling in the love department. This episode is perfect if you’re looking to understand yourself and your relationships better. Grab a cup of tea or get ready for your hot girl walk because we're diving straight in!

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If you find yourself picking little fights, having the same argument over and over, or maybe it's like clockwork where every two or three weeks there's a big blowout—this episode is for you!

What’s actually happening in these cycles is deep-rooted in our conditioning and subconscious patterns. When you're in these repetitive cycles, it's like a glitch in your relationship's source code. One of the first steps to breaking this cycle is getting radically honest with yourself.

I’m also thrilled to announce the relaunch of The Confidence Code, a program I designed to help you heal your relationship anxiety and anxious attachment. This program walks you through the exact steps to stop overthinking, trust yourself, and stop self-sabotaging. 

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Hey girlies, welcome back! Today we're diving deep into relationship intuition and how you might be blocking yours.

First, operating from a place of “should”—stop "shoulding" on yourself and let your intuition shine. Second, irritation—if you’re constantly irritated, it’s a distraction from your true feelings. And finally, overthinking—this is the biggest block. Overthinking takes you out of the present and away from your intuition.

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Have you ever found yourself wondering if that nagging feeling in your gut is real intuition or just another anxiety spiral? In this episode we're sorting out a massive mix-up: Is it intuition or just plain overthinking in your relationship?

We're going to learn how to distinguish between genuine gut feelings and the noise of anxiety. And yes, there's a big difference!  Remember, your intuition is your superpower when you know how to listen.

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If you grew up in a home where the default was drama, you might feel like it’s hardwired into your soul to snap back. Healing your anxious attachment isn't about quieting your power—it's about rewiring those love life vibes from reactive to responsive.

Choosing to be soft in a world that taught you to be hard is not just brave; it’s revolutionary. Press play and get ready to enter your soft girl era, where peace is the new power move! 

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