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Bonus Coaching Session: Rebuilding the Parent-Child Bond When the System Gets in the Way


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In this week’s Friday Coaching Corner, I respond to a heartbreaking listener story that highlights just how overwhelming it can feel to keep fighting for your child when the family court system and even your own attorney seem to be standing in the way.

This listener’s ex-partner is refusing to comply with the court order requiring their child to participate in family therapy, therapy that could be covered by Medicaid, while continuing to manipulate both the child and the process. The result is devastating: a protective parent with only a weekly phone call and a mountain of grief, legal obstacles, and financial strain.

Questions Answered in this Episode:

  • How to use the exact language in your court order to advocate for family therapy.
  • The difference between family therapy and reunification therapy (and why it matters for insurance coverage).
  • Practical steps for documenting refusals and setting up a motion to compel, rather than just contempt proceedings.
  • Strategies for getting your unresponsive attorney to act, including how to organize your communications using the Rocks in a Jar method.
  • Where to turn for ADA accommodation requests or grievances in Colorado.
  • Speaking to the grief of being kept from your child—and why your early bond still matters.


This is a tough but important conversation. If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying the whole burden of advocacy while the system lets you down, I hope you find both validation and practical direction here.

Referred Links:
Rocks in a Jar video - https://www.canva.com/design/DAGv_UPUPeA/aGbiC6yT5hNhbsoevU-cQQ/edit
Project Justice USA Survey - https://www.projectjusticeusa.com/




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