June 05, 2026

Boundaries, Burnout, and Becoming the Real You

35 minutes

EP:195 In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I’m getting really honest with you about something most of us were never taught growing up: boundaries.

I share the story of how I went from being the “yes girl” who bent over backwards for everyone—my partner, my kids, my family, my friends—to the woman I am today, who trusts her gut, speaks her truth, and isn’t afraid to say, “That doesn’t work for me.”

I take you back to 2018, when I had just sold my business, moved to Austin, and found myself as a full-time caretaker for my kids and for Jonathan. I open up about the moment I realized I was so overwhelmed and exhausted that I was reaching for a 3 p.m. glass of wine just to “make it through the day”—and how that became my engine light blinking: something has to change.

From there, I walk you through my healing journey:

What it looked like to notice I had zero boundaries

How enforcing boundaries affected my marriage, divorce, and Jonathan’s mental health journey

The grief of losing my husband to suicide and the blame that landed on me

Losing friendships because I finally chose self-respect over people-pleasing

And slowly, steadily, rebuilding my confidence and sense of self.

We also go deep into parenting and boundaries—an area where I think a lot of modern parenting advice has completely missed the mark.

I talk about:

Why gentle / conscious parenting, when taken to the extreme, can leave you exhausted and powerless

How a lack of boundaries can lead to kids essentially running the show

Why consistent follow-through is everything (your kids are way smarter and more calculating than you think!)

The power of structure, stability, and control in helping your child’s brain and nervous system thrive

When and how to start setting firm, loving boundaries—especially from age 5 and up

I also share how I learned to:

Tell the truth even when it’s wildly uncomfortable

Release my obsession with how others would react (especially my parents, my partners, and friends)

Choose partners and friendships that can hold hard conversations, not avoid them

Model for my kids what it looks like when a mom has her own boundaries, not just endless self-sacrifice.

At its core, this episode is your permission slip to:

Stop hanging on by a thread

Listen to your gut

Say the thing that needs to be said

Set the boundary—kindly, clearly, and consistently

And trust that healthy relationships can survive (and often improve) when you honor yourself.

If you’ve ever thought, “I’m drowning. I’m exhausted. I feel like I’m doing everything for everyone,” this episode is for you.

If this episode hit home for you, here’s what I’d love for you to do next:

Share this episode with another parent or friend who’s stuck in people-pleasing or feels like they’re barely making it through the day.

Subscribe / follow Thrive Like a Parent so you don’t miss future episodes on regulation, boundaries, and building a life that actually feels good.

Tag me on social media and tell me: What’s one boundary you’re ready to start enforcing—starting today? Your share might be exactly what another parent needs to see.

You are allowed to need boundaries. You are allowed to change. And you are absolutely allowed to build a life that supports your nervous system instead of destroying it.

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By Dr. Brooke Weinstein

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