You've probably seen people throw around the term "trauma bonding" like confetti on social media… but are they using this term correctly?! In this episode, we're breaking down what trauma bonding actually is, how people misuse it, and why calling every messy relationship by that name might be keeping you stuck.

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This one's your wake-up call. If you keep discounting yourself for people who don't even pay full attention, that's on you. Self-respect isn't arrogance - it's knowing you're not a clearance-rack find. The moment you start acting like you're the prize, your whole energy changes. Stop begging to be chosen and start choosing better.

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Sure, you can try to convince yourself (or someone else) it was just a "mistake," a "drunken slip," or "not really cheating," but for anyone with integrity... betrayal is betrayal. Period. If you've been downplaying what happened to you - or what you did - this episode is here to show you why you need to cut through the excuses and keep it real.

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Whether you're reeling from a breakup or tangled in relationship drama, your social media can speak louder than you realize. This episode is your reminder to pump the brakes so you don't end up looking back, wishing you had.

Think of this episode as a friendly wake-up call to stay classy, stay mysterious, and keep moving forward - on and off screen.

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Red flags aren't just cute little quirks you should "wait and see" about - they're WARNINGS. And ignoring them? That's how you end up in relationship quicksand. Not fun.

If you've ever second-guessed your gut or brushed off a behavior because you didn't want to "make a big deal out of it," this one's for you. 

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Weekends are supposed to feel exciting. But when you're fresh out of a breakup, they can feel like extra days of torture. Everyone else seems busy, happy, and coupled up - and you're stuck fighting the urge to reach out to your ex. This episode is your reminder of why that's the worst idea you could have right now… and what to do instead. 

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Have you ever been dumped and hit with the classic, "Maybe one day we can get back together..."? In this episode, I'm breaking down why that line is more insulting than comforting... and what it REALLY means. If you've been holding onto a "maybe," after a breakup situation, this is your wake-up call to change course, remember your worth, and get your life back on track. You're welcome ;)

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You've heard it. Maybe you've even said it. But today I'm ripping that phrase apart and exposing the truth behind it.

I'm breaking down the 6 types of people who claim cheating somehow helped their relationship - and trust me, it's not the "flex" they think it is.

If you've ever tried to justify staying with someone who betrayed you - or if someone you know is deep in denial - this one's probably gonna hit hard. Are you ready to hear what's really going on behind the scenes of these "stronger than ever" love stories?

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It's once again time to KEEP IT REAL. When a man says he's "not ready for a relationship," what does he really mean? In this episode, I break down the truth behind this all-too-common phrase, why women keep holding onto it as though it signifies "hope" ... and what's actually going on beneath the surface.

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Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com

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