Everybody always talks about the ex, but Emma thinks we’re asking the wrong question. Because when a friend gets involved with someone you’ve dated, it’s rarely about the guy. It’s about loyalty. It’s about trust. And it’s about the uncomfortable moment when someone’s actions force you to reevaluate what your friendship actually meant to them.

With all the Summer House Reunion drama going on, this week, Emma is going down the rabbit hole into the messy gray area that is girl code: Are all exes off-limits? Is there a statute of limitations on heartbreak? What makes one situation forgivable and another friendship-ending? And why does finding out your friend is with your ex sometimes hurt more than the breakup itself?

With her signature big sister advice and tough love, Emma unpacks the unspoken rules of friendship, betrayal, boundaries, and the difference between what you’re allowed to do and what you should do. Because sometimes the real heartbreak isn’t losing the relationship. It’s losing the friend.

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