Are you ready to turn up the heat and reclaim your sexy after 40? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different!  But that doesn’t mean that it can’t be fun. In Episode 362 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes” Kimmy dives into the most common mistakes she sees her clients making and how you can avoid them.

In this episode, Kimmy discusses key insights on why dating after 40 is different, the importance of updating your mindset, managing realistic expectations, and dispelling old-fashioned dating rules. She also dives into the impact of lacking flirtation and playfulness, and how it can hinder your dating journey. Kimmy shares engaging anecdotes and success stories from her coaching experience, proving that with the right approach, finding love and happiness after 40 is absolutely within reach. And, she shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. 

And if you’re ready to get back out there, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you have dating anxiety? You like the idea of a relationship but putting yourself out there to meet someone feels risky and causes a lot of fear.   In Episode 361 of The Charisma Quotient, “Taking Risks When Dating:  Where Are They Now with Paul” Kimmy’s client Paul shares how he went from struggling with confidence and emotional connections to finding the love of his life by simply opening himself up and putting himself out there.

In this episode, Kimmy and Paul engage in an insightful conversation, discussing the skills he gained during his coaching  and style sessions with Kimmy. They explore the empowering nature of taking risks and being vulnerable, highlighting Paul's funny story of how he learned to meet women at Whole Foods. You’ll hear the importance of facing fears and taking steps to overcome them, Paul’s transformation from fear of rejection to vulnerability and confidence and how to move past low self-confidence and surface-level conversations.  The episode ends with the heartwarming story of how his confidence grew by talking to everybody and building a social network which led to meeting the love of his life.  

If you have a hard time putting yourself out there and taking risks, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  

And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you tired of the endless swiping and superficial interactions on dating apps? Do you long for the days where you could meet someone in person?  In Episode 360 of The Charisma Quotient, “Ditch The Dating Apps And Meet IRL,” Kimmy delves into the world of real-life connections and the lost art of flirting in person. She shares riveting anecdotes of individuals transitioning from disillusionment with digital dating to finding love through sincere real-life encounters and gives tangible tips on how you can too.

In this episode, Kimmy shares success stories of going out with clients who believed the days of meeting people in real life were over and transforming them into flirtatious, charismatic daters who aren’t afraid to approach people. She talks about the power of initiating conversations and not being afraid to put yourself out there.  Kimmy outlines simple actions you can take to meet people IRL.  You’ll hear about the significance of saying "hi" and sharing intimate details to foster meaningful connections, steps to maintain open body language and position yourself for potential interactions and tips on where to meet people.  Kimmy shares how to address the concerns and anxieties about re-entering the dating world after a long absence

If you are feeling lost on how to meet people in the wild, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  

And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Does dating often leave you feeling detached? In today’s world where social media and online dating are everywhere, it can feel impossible to have an authentic dating experience, especially in real life. In Episode 359 of The Charisma Quotient, “Stop Detached Dating: Interview with Steve Sims,” Kimmy sits down with the incredibly witty and insightful Steve Sims, a master in the art of building genuine relationships. Steve has a fascinating journey from a nightclub doorman to the founder of the world's first experiential concierge firm including a private dinner party at the feet of Michelangelo’s David where Andrea Bocelli serenaded guests.

In this episode, Kimmy and Steve unravel the secrets to navigating the modern dating landscape, from shifting mindsets to embracing rejection as a learning process. They discuss how even as an introvert, you can find connection and get something out of even your bad dates. From embracing rejection as a catalyst for growth to being fully present and giving in to social interactions, they shed light on why dating with intention and a positive mindset leads to more success.

If you want help overcoming fears and challenges of meeting people in the wild in person, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  

And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you date from a place of fear? Maybe your past trauma is informing the way you go about not only dating but how you live your life. Meet Kim, an amazing woman who overcame her fears of dating and financial struggles after attending a dating retreat with Kimmy.  In Episode 358 of The Charisma Quotient, “Face Your Dating Fears: Where Are They Now with Kim,” Kim shares how finding happiness from the outside - in gave her permission to attract a new man in her life.

In this episode, Kimmy dives into Kim’s transformation from being the woman who couldn’t even watch herself in a video and was hiding from the world to the woman who loves herself and is willing to take risks and bold action. Kim shares her personal story of how going through a divorce had done damage to her self-esteem leading her to be intense and fearful. After attending Kimmy’s dating retreat and working with her, she was able to identify the fears she had that she wasn’t even aware of. The retreat launched her into her new self - a woman who is confident and goes out and does what she loves. And her confidence has now led her to find love!

If you’re ready to face your dating fears and want to attend a dating retreat like Kim did, inquire by going to askkimmy.com to set up a call.  Or if you want a free private coaching session to discover other ways Kimmy can help you conquer your fears and become a dating magnet, book a call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Ever wondered what kind of dater you are?  Maybe you tend to be stuck in the friendzone or maybe you attract unavailable partners.  What if you knew that there are common challenges people have when dating and specific ways you can overcome them to attract who you want?  In Episode 357 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What is Your Dating Archetype?,” Kimmy goes over her five dating archetypes which will let you know where you fit in the dating world. 

In this episode, Kimmy breaks down each of her dating archetypes and lets you know where you might fall. By figuring out your dating archetype, you’ll be able to learn how to work through your dating patterns to get a different result. It’s not about being pigeonholed - finding your archetype is about pushing through past traumas that are holding you back from finding success in your dating life.  You’ll hear Kimmy reveal the signs and characteristics of being in the friend zone, how past trauma influences dating behaviors and how learning your dating archetype can get you to break patterns of toxic dating. 

If you want to know what kind of dater you are and how to improve your results take the Dating Archetype Quiz here https://form.jotform.com/231376592380157

Ready to embark on a transformative journey to redefine your dating approach? Set up a free breakthrough call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you an anxious or avoidant dater? Knowing your attachment style can help you know when your anxiety might be hurting your dating life and affect your love life overall. In Episode 356 of The Charisma Quotient, “Your Dating Attachment Style: Interview with Thais Gibson,” Kimmy sits down with Thais Gibson, the owner of Personal Development School and author of “Learning Love”, to talk about the importance of learning your attachment style - whether it’s anxious, avoidant, or secure and how knowing your style will help you find success in your love life. 

In this episode, Kimmy and Thais delve into the core of attachment theory, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, communication, and the impact of core wounds on relationships. Thais' journey of self-healing and the power of neuroplasticity in reprogramming attachment styles will leave you inspired and hopeful for your own transformation. You’ll leave knowing what your attachment style is and what to watch out for when it comes to love.

If you are struggling with your love life due to your attachment style, learn to uncover practical tools and invaluable insights for rewiring your style with Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating.  You’ll learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that are sabotaging who you are attracting in your life. Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you attracting the wrong people? You’ve spent so much time learning how to attract someone but the ones you like aren’t into you and the ones you don’t like are!  In Episode 355 of The Charisma Quotient, “Attracting the Wrong People: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy sits down with Tejas and does a LIVE coaching session with her around the perplexing challenge of attracting men she’s not interested in while struggling to draw in those she truly desires.   

In this episode, Tejas opens up to Kimmy about dating expectations in India and how that has impacted her love life. They talk about how coming from a culture of arranged marriages can create a lot of confusion when it comes to dating on your own and looking for a partner. Tejas shares the 3 things she’s looking for in a man which Kimmy reveals might be part of the problem.  Tune in to hear how Kimmy uncovers the truth of why Tejas isn’t attracting or connecting with the men she thinks she wants.  HINT:  It has nothing to do with the men.  You’ll hear more topics around reasons why you might not attract someone you’re attracted to, how to prioritize emotional connection over rushing to find a partner and the importance of acknowledging personal and emotional growth and self worthiness.

If you are looking at breaking some patterns of who you are attracting then you’ll definitely want to come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating to learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that is sabotaging who you are attracting in your life.  Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Does dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s feel completely foreign to you? A lot has probably changed since you were dating in your 20s and 30s. With online dating now taking over the scene, dating can feel overwhelming. In Episode 354 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40,” Kimmy goes over red flags to look for when dating in your second act and how to slow down your dating game to pick the right partner.

In this episode, Kimmy teaches you to pay attention to the type of people you are attracting and how to discern who genuinely cares for you in the initial stages of dating. If you’re rushing to get out of the dating game because you hate going on dates, you might end up with the wrong person. Dating over 40 can feel different, and it's important to pay attention to red flags that may arise and affect your love life. This episode is full of useful tips to make dating fun again so you know how to stay away from the red flags.

If you are finding dating frustrating and overwhelming as you are trying to get back out there, click here to book a private call with me to help you map out a personal plan so that you can start making dating fun https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you a self-described introvert? Does the idea of opening up to someone new make you want to crawl right back into bed? In Episode 353 of The Charisma Quotient, “Struggles High Achievers Face When Dating: Interview with Chris Guerriero,” Kimmy chats with Chris about the struggles of dating as a high achieving introvert and how it can hold you back from being vulnerable. Chris is a serial entrepreneur whose journey from personal fitness trainer to building nearly a dozen successful companies. He is also a bestselling author and a business growth expert. So if he can find success and connection as an introvert, you can too!

In this episode, Kimmy and Chris explore the delicate balance between work and personal life, the complexities of dating for busy professionals, and the profound importance of vulnerability and connection in forging genuine relationships. They delve into Chris's personal dating preferences, sharing eye-opening stories about finding equilibrium and joy in love and life.

If you are having a hard time dating due to being a successful, high achiever then sign up for a FREE private session with Kimmy so that she can map out a plan to help you do the work for once https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Image Expert and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers