It Takes A Village

Children's stories tackle the loneliness of trauma


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Māori academic Linda Tuhiwai Smith tells Kathryn Ryan she often cried while writing her new series of therapeutic storybooks for kids.

Māori academic Linda Tuhiwai Smith says she often cried while writing her new series of therapeutic storybooks for kids.

"Some of the biggest witnesses and victims of violence are children and yet we don't speak to them directly about these matters and we don't let them speak to us in a sense," she tells Kathryn Ryan.

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The books, which are based in kaupapa Māori, are a resource for people working with children who've experienced trauma, including caregivers, social workers, psychologists and doctors.

Tuhiwai Smith, who has spent decades researching the impacts of trauma on Māori communities, was driving around the North Island when she started thinking about how children can get left out of the conversation when there is family trauma.

She looked around for books that centre on childhood trauma and found very few so decided to write some herself - to be released in both English and te reo Māori.

Riwia and The Stargazer (Riwia Me Te Mātai Arorangi) is about a little girl whose baby sibling dies.

"This story is about the grief of a family. It's about the resilience and resourcefulness and creativity of the parents who have to grieve for their baby but also care for this curious girl.

"It was really important to me to show that Māori fathers can be present... any dad or mum who is present for their child can be doing things to help them process grief."

I Am a Little Voice (He Reo Iti Noa Ahau), which is about a child who's been abused and needs professional help, was the book Tuhiwai Smith cried the most while writing.

" it's also about the lots of little ways extended members of whanau can help children through with kindness.... Sometimes it's not the spectacular things that heal people, it's the everyday acts of kindness, love, relationships and recognition of what a child may be going through."

Tuhiwai Smith designed the books to help adults open up conversations with tamariki.

From her research, she knows that if a child experiences something traumatic and no one talks to them about it, they'll often create their own narrative in which they blame themselves.

"Children have far more insight and wisdom than we often give them credit for ... I have this belief that children can process grief and trauma if adults help them process it. And that means adults have to process their own emotions and be able to think outside what's going on for them…

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