Cocktales with Kiki

This week we're back in our Los Angeles and chat with Shan Boodram, author, sex educator, popular YouTube personality, and intimacy expert! Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe discuss healthy dating practices. They explore the misconceptions of finding true love, playing hard to get, and the importance of being intentional and strategic when it comes to dating. They also discuss introducing the idea of non-monogamy into a relationship and navigating non-monogamous relationships, and how to handle social media in relationships. They also explore i the complexities of jealousy in relationships, the importance of communication and boundaries, and the benefits of just being honest about where you're at currently when dating someone versus thinking far ahead. Shan Boodram even shares a wild cocktale about a trip to Palm Springs that may have had a happy ending.


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In this episode, we explore the world of tantra and healthy sexuality. We discuss how tantra can help us cultivate a deeper connection with our partners and enhance our sexual experiences. We also delve into the importance of appreciating our partners and their unique qualities, as well as the benefits of women having orgasmic sexual experiences.

We highlight the role of foreplay in creating a safe and comfortable space for sexual exploration, and how it can help us connect on a physical and emotional level. We discuss techniques and tips for enhancing foreplay, and how it can lead to more fulfilling sexual experiences for both partners.

We also discuss the importance of communication in sexual relationships and how it can help us understand our partner's desires and boundaries. We touch on how to overcome common sexual issues, such as performance anxiety and low libido, and how to create a healthy and fulfilling sex life.

Overall, this episode aims to provide a comprehensive understanding of how tantra, healthy sexuality, and the appreciation of our partners can lead to more satisfying and fulfilling sexual experiences.

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This week we're discussing traumatic dating. Whew! We've all experienced some trauma when dating, some things have really shaped who we are today, and some things aren't really so traumatic, they're actually situations we can look back at, laugh, and move on from. Lesson learned!

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This week we discuss what dating things are really cute and romantic vs. borderline corny. Let us know which ones we missed!

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This week we’re doing a little listener appreciation! We invite one of our Patreon subscribers, Shamira, to get in her business.

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This week we’re catching up since we're back in the stu! Crazy weird sex, why we feel like rappers, and tapping into your inner sex goddess! Get into it

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This week we’re joined by Erica and Milah of Good Moms Bad Choices podcast. We discuss motherhood, finding yourself after, getting back into the groove of sex and what it’s really like to be a single mother. We also discuss threesomes in Ibiza, role play, and post baby life in general. Oh yea, we had a few treats before hand. LA was such a vibe!

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This week we explore the top cities for love across the United States PLUS we break down the lyrics to Beyonce's Cuff It. Weird sex is also pretty weird this week, a landlord gives an offer to tenants behind on rent that lands him in the slammer! Plus Diane has a great date idea for those who don't mind getting a little messy.

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