Cocktales with Kiki

In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone.

We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend when someone in your circle goes through trauma. Lindsay also spills on playing the unhinged Leslie on “The Team”, the joy of being a villain, and what’s next for her production company, LA Elite Productions, including her upcoming films “Girls Night,” “The Perfect Proposal,” and “Curious.”

And because every episode needs something in the glass, today’s drink is the Prego-Rita — a citrusy mocktail with a sparkling-wine upgrade for the girls who aren’t pregnant.

🍹 Today’s Cocktail: The Prego-Rita (Mocktail + Cocktail) Base:

• 2 oz fresh lime juice or alcohol-free margarita mix
• 1 oz fresh orange juice
• 1 oz agave syrup
• Club soda to top
• Optional: salt/Tajín rim + jalapeño slices

Cocktail Add-On:

• 2 oz sparkling wine

Directions:
Shake lime, orange, and agave over ice. Pour into a rimmed glass over fresh ice.
Mocktail: top with club soda.
Cocktail: add sparkling wine, then top with club soda.
Garnish with jalapeño for a spicy kick.

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Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales.

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We are back in the studio with Cocktales Chardonnay in our glasses and a lot on our hearts.
This week Kiki and Medinah catch you up on everything from Hedonism in Jamaica after Hurricane Melissa to one of the wildest Weird Sex stories we have had in a minute. Kiki shares how the resort staff has been impacted, why she is turning her suitcase into a donation bin, and how you can help if you feel called to give. Medinah talks about Paradise & Vibe’s Traveler’s Resort family, the fundraiser in Jamaica and why natural disasters hit different when you know the people affected.

We also get into robot taxis glitching in Atlanta, Kiki’s fever app mock trial experience where the audience decides who is guilty in an AI car accident, and Medinah’s grown woman announcements, including her holiday tablescaping class with her interior designer and a full wellness retreat in Istanbul, Turkey.

A listener writes in about an ER trauma case where a woman comes in after being hit by a car, gets scanned head to toe, and the entire team discovers a plug sitting pretty on the CT. From toys to MRIs and lying about metal in your body, we take it there.

Then the episode takes a tender turn. Medinah opens up about putting her dog Shai down, what led up to that heartbreaking vet visit, the costs, the process and the grief of coming home to an empty hallway, a leash in the car and a quiet house after more than a decade with her best friend. She reflects on a long season of letting go, trusting God, and learning healthier coping mechanisms than she had when she first got Chi.

Kiki shares her own life updates too, including a Leo and Teyana Taylor film premiere, more thoughts on AI car trials, using the Fever app to find things to do, and why Atlanta actually has plenty of food and fun if you stop following only the “lit” IG spots. The ladies swap date recommendations like Midtown Social’s R&B Bingo, Cirque du Soleil, museums, sushi classes and even ballroom dancing.

They close with some real talk about how podcasts and creator work are actually funded, why your subscription, reviews and shares really matter, and how you can support CockTales without going broke in this economy. Plus, Medinah invites listeners to join her for a Meals on Wheels Atlanta volunteer day and reminds anyone struggling that there are resources and community waiting.

If you have ever loved a pet like a family member, felt stuck in grief, or just needed a reminder that you can cry and still get cute for a date and a concert, this episode is for you.

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Pour up some champagne and join Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe for a deep, funny, and heartfelt episode featuring K. Micole—celebrity stylist turned image architect and author.
They unpack everything from healing and co-parenting to how your image reflects your inner world. K. Micole gets real about building confidence, balancing motherhood and purpose, and learning to forgive yourself without losing your shine.

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00:00:00 - Introduction
00:00:29 - Discussion on Seasonal Depression
00:01:17 - Discussion on Image Architecture
00:04:46 - Discussion on Personal Styling
00:17:06 - Product Promotion
00:19:31 - Continuation of Parenting and Relationships Discussion
00:41:16 - Discussion on Self-awareness and Personal Growth
00:45:01 - Discussion on Overcoming Adversity
00:56:13 - Discussion on the Power of Prayer
01:02:14 - Discussion on Authenticity
01:06:10 - Listener's Letter and Advice
01:17:28 - Discussion on Friendships and Self-reflection

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Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 - Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 - Host Catch-Up00:05:22 - Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 - Game Time00:20:09 - Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 - The Dog Drama00:36:05 - Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 - When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 - Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 - Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.

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• Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

• 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
• Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026
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Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered

• 💆🏽‍♀️ Cupping, Muscle Alignment & Back Pain: Kiki’s wild story about her body going on strike and how therapy (of the physical kind) brought her back.
  
  
• ☀️ Low Vitamin D, Hormone Health & Mental Clarity: Medinah opens up about her emotional lows and discovering that her sadness wasn’t just in her head — it was in her bloodwork.
  
  
• 💉 Redefining “Normal”: Why “normal” test results don’t always mean healthy, and how systemic biases in medicine impact Black women.
  
  
• 💕 Dating Culture & the Bare Minimum Epidemic: The ladies react to a shocking revelation — some women have never been taken on a real date. They discuss how to raise standards, heal from bad patterns, and stop mistaking attention for effort.
  
  
• 💬 Community and Connection: From breast cancer awareness walks to social clubs and single-mom dinners, Kiki and Medinah highlight women-centered spaces that foster real sisterhood.
  
  
• 😳 Weird Sex Story of the Week: An ER visit turns into an unforgettable discovery when a routine scan reveals a little… extra hardware.
  
  

✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates.


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Links Mentioned:

• 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
• Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

• 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
• Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026
• To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

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Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com
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Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real.

The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, her take on the “Winter Arc” trend, and why LinkedIn just became her new favorite social app.

They close it out with reflections on reading more, healing from burnout, and what it means to stay authentic when life gets messy.Cocktail of the Week: Unruly — just champagne, because we’re celebrating making it through another week.


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Links Mentioned:

• 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
• Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

• 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
• Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026
• To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

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Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected]
Guest Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected]
Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com
Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com
Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy
Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com

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(00:00:00) Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags

(00:00:01) Intro Trailer

(00:01:30) LIBRA LEMON DROP RECIPE

(00:05:16) ANNOUNCEMENTS

(00:07:38) KIKI'S BOOK CLUB

(00:11:23) XOMAN PODCAST

(00:13:47) HEDONISM WITH WORST BEHAVIOR TOUR STARTING AT $1650

(00:17:26) LIFERX USE CODE COCKTALES

(00:22:13) WEIRD SEX

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(00:47:16) DISSAPOINMENTS 7 THE JOY OF SHOWING UP

(01:03:15) I'M CURIOUS TO KNOW

(01:05:01) advice - send yours [email protected]

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered girl chat—no guest, just us! We kick things off with a Libra Lemon Drop cocktail and dive into Libra season vibes, astrology, and friendship dynamics. From growing apart after kids to showing up for friends’ milestones, we get real about what it means to maintain connections through life’s transitions.

We also share self-rituals, birthday traditions, and our takes on communication struggles—whether it’s boring conversations, copycat friends, or partners who just won’t open up. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without a wild story, and this week’s birthday cake incident will have you cackling. Plus, Indecisive Diane drops in with advice, and we tackle listener questions about threesomes and friend drama.

Pour a drink, press play, and let’s talk friendships, growth, and keeping it spicy.

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• 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon September “Tethered Love by Kimberly Brown www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
• Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

• 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
• Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026
• To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

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Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected]
Cocktales: [email protected]
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Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected]
Guest Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected]

Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com
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Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy
Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com




✨ Chapters:

00:00:00 - Intro Teaser: Growing Apart from Friends
00:00:19 - Self Traditions and Rituals
00:00:33 - Conversation Control
00:00:50 - Growing Apart After Having Kids
00:01:12 - Cocktales: Dirty Discussions Introduction
00:01:30 - Libra Lemon Drop Cocktail Recipe
00:02:04 - Libra Season Discussion
00:03:07 - Friends and Astrology Signs
00:05:16 - Announcements and Updates
00:07:38 - Book Club Meeting
00:11:23 - XO Man Podcast
00:13:47 - Worst Behavior Tour Trip to Negril, Jamaica
00:15:31 - Excitement for the Upcoming Trip to Turkey
00:15:58 - Discussing Body Positivity and Self Sex Education
00:16:18 - Gift of Experiences
00:17:08 - Reflecting on Friendships
00:17:26 - LifeRX Segment: Health and Fitness Journey with Life Rx MD
00:22:13 - Weird S*x Story: Birthday Cake Incident
00:26:27 - Growing Apart from Friends: Perspectives
00:31:40 - Speaking Up in Relationships and Friendships
00:34:10 - The Elasticity of the Heart
00:36:26 - Self Reflection and Personal Growth
00:39:53 - Birthday Rituals and Traditions
00:40:30 - Appreciation for Massages
00:44:19 - Ad: VB Health: Soaking Wet Pills
00:46:54 - Soaking Wet Ad
00:47:16 - Disappointments in Friendships
00:47:54 - The Joy of Showing Up
00:50:50 - Surprising Nephew in LA
00:52:57 - Supporting Friends' Events
00:55:34 - The Importance of Communication
00:56:30 - The Struggles of Boring Conversations
01:01:38 - The Importance of Hobbies
01:02:15 - Dealing with Non-Communicative People
01:02:50 - Creating Conversations and Breaking the Silence
01:03:15 - Promoting I'm Curious to Know.com
01:03:55 - Indecisive Diane
01:05:01 - Advice Segment Introduction
01:05:43 - Advice: Exploring Threesomes
01:11:45 - Advice: Dealing with Copycat Friends

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This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.

Detailed Show Notes:
Marriage, Partnership & Real Love Lessons
Topics Covered:

• How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kids
  
  
• What they believe are the “silent killers” of marriage
  
  
• Why trust has to be earned but also given with grace
  
  
• The role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship alive
  
  
• Their wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoon
  
  
• Adjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balance
  
  
• Why friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriage
  
  
• Lessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partner

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Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride
02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*
04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating
09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage
13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos
17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh
27:00 – Do married people miss being single?
31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance
37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex
44:00 – Living together before marriage
50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths
53:00 – How to choose the right partner

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We’re back—fashionably late thanks to last week’s tech gremlins—but the Virgo Vixen energy is intact. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with the Virgo Vixen cocktail, then catch up on names vs. nicknames, a quick shout to Lula’s Legacy of Love (Breast Cancer walk 10/25 in Tampa), and Kiki’s Drinks & Reads book club featuring author Kimberly Brown.

Kiki recaps Podcast Movement (anxiety to applause), a heavenly stop at Southern Classic Daiquiri Factory, and why her birthday plan is all about volunteering with Meals on Wheels (53 friends confirmed!). We get into Hedonism plans for December, TikTok family moments, sweet-16 prep, clubbing at Revel, and a real talk segment on dating while on a “soft pop-out”—fly-outs with boundaries, bundles discourse, and why “a lot” isn’t an insult.

Medinah opens up about Paradise & Vibe Sedona: the celebrity no-show, the lessons learned, and how an intimate Lion Babe performance turned into a tiny-desk-style moment.

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• 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

• Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026

• To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

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