Confidence

As much as I have always been genuine and authentic on this podcast, there have been some things I have been resisting discussing. This week, I share my true, vulnerable feelings and experiences that I have neglected to open up about. I then get into your questions; we are going to be talking about how to find the cl*t, strategies for short kings looking to cuff, my biggest first date turn-off, and a situation where a woman is trying to understand why her soul mate who has so much potential will not get it together. I don't love showing my less positive emotions, but it is time I drop the ego and take off the mask.

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This week, I asked you, "What's your #1 value in a relationship?" But before we dive into that, have you ever wondered how to stop attracting toxic partners? I’ve got the solution. In this episode, I walk you through a powerful exercise that uses your past relationships to help you uncover your dating blind spots. Turns out, those toxic partners taught us something after all!We’ll also talk about the top values women want in a man and how we can align your behaviors to receive them. Plus, I tackle some big questions like: Why does a man who seemed so nice suddenly turn cold and defensive? How can we communicate better? And do men really sabotage relationships to protect themselves?There's a lot to unpack, so grab your journal, and let’s get into it!

22:41 Women’s number one value in relationships

36:19 Audience Question: Men Struggling to Communicate

47:48 Do men really self-sabotage to protect themselves?

In this episode, we cover three main limiting beliefs when it comes to relationships. These include finding a balance between independence and dependence, trust issues, and giving too much energy but not receiving it. We then talk about the taxi cab theory, debunking any myths and affirming the truths that come with it. Men aren’t capable of commitment and women are jaded… who’s to blame?

Chapters

00:00 Limiting Beliefs in Relationships 

48:23 Taxi Cab Theory

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In this episode, we explore how to be genuinely happy while single, embracing this time as an opportunity for self-discovery, growth, and independence. We'll share powerful insights on building a life you love without waiting for a partner, finding joy in your company, and using this period to pursue your passions and goals unapologetically. We’ll In this episode, I'll explore how to be genuinely happy while single, embracing this time as an opportunity for self-discovery. I share my 3 step method to align your mindset and actions during this period of your life for maximum growth and peace. I then take on audience questions regarding intellectual stimulation, someone's fiance missing her birthday, and my thoughts on eating ass. It is time you embrace the singlehood and create a life for yourself that is 100% unapologetically you.

Chapters

1:01 How to be Happy While Single

43:46 Audience Questions

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In this episode, I explore the ever-complicated question: how to get your ex back and, more importantly, whether you should even want to. With help from the audience, I'll discuss the reasons why people seek to rekindle past relationships and help you determine if it's genuinely in your best interest. I then respond to a situation where an audience member called off her engagement and is now trying to get him back. I then tackle the question: what is the best way to get back at ex or situationship that did you dirty? Here is the guide for all those that want their ex back.

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Someone asked me this week, why are men in their "sassy era?" I give my thoughts on why people are having a harder time connecting, and how you can start creating more connections and purging the wrong ones. What makes you a hookup girl versus the wifey type? Let's discuss how you can begin to change their perception of you, and what you can do if you are stuck in that box. I go over how long is too long for a situationship and also take on an audience situation on whether she should stay or go. I end the podcast with an audience question for the women: "Is there a best time/way for a man to come back into your life to repair your connection?"

Chapters

21:41 How to Get Out of Hookup Girl Box

32:20 Is an 8-Month Situationship Too Long?

41:18 Audience Situation: Should You Stay or Go?

50:43 Audience Question: When to Reengage?

In this episode, I tackle how to deal with a man who is emotionally unavailable but still wants to keep you around. I present two common pitfalls you might fall into while managing emotionally unavailable individuals. I'll share strategies for protecting your peace while deciding whether to stay or move on. Additionally, I will present a new perspective on trust that altered the way I handle my relationships! I also answer some audience questions, including how to handle your ex viewing your story and giving you their location, as well as whether you should reach out to make plans with a guy who has ditched you on your first attempt.

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In this episode, we explore the crucial question: how do you know if someone is real and genuinely cares about you? We'll discuss the key signs to look for and how to trust your intuition in relationships. From setting boundaries to understanding the importance of communication, we’ll also discuss empowerment during dating. Are you settling? This week, we cover the vital topic of getting your needs met in a relationship, offering strategies to ensure your voice is heard and your needs are respected.

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Are you struggling to stay detached and find yourself stuck in cycles of attachment, comparison, and longing for specific outcomes? Whether you're having trouble moving on from someone or letting go of past failures, this episode will guide you through the steps to build fulfillment beyond the negative memories and the past. It won't be easy, but this uncomfortable accountability is exactly what you need to finally break free from what's holding you back.

Where your attention goes, your energy flows. In today's episode, I share some exciting insights on refocusing your attention and consciousness, releasing guilt, and shifting your mindset during a separation. I addressed two questions: first, how to start over after losing everything; and second, how to navigate dating when you don't feel a spark but the person seems perfect on paper.

Chapters

20:14 How to Start Over

34:50 Dating with No Spark