It's about time for an addendums episode! AKA an ep where we dump our additional thoughts (and your feedback) on topics we've discussed—because there's always more to say about styling, aging, and, apparently, catalogs.

Looking for a method to define your personal style? Check out Allison Bornstein's Three-Word Method on TikTok: part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, and part 6 for your clicking pleasure. (Call us with your wooords!!) More about her philosophy in this Harper's Bazaar profile.

Re: styling, a follow-up on Amy Smilovic, including the outfit that stopped Claire in her tracks and her shirt-tying innovation. When it comes to button-downs, Claire loves her custom oversize Chava one—it's great with elastic-waist pants (as is this Roucha tank top.)

In response to our discussion of marbling, we learned about some family-owned places to get monogrammed marbled gifts in Florence: Alberto Cozzi and Riccardo Luci.

Speaking of Italy, we both recently visited and fell hard for Milan—it lives up to the promise of Jenny Walton's Instagram and Sight Unseen's Design Week coverage. Keep an eye out for a future Secret Menu installment starring our favorite Milan spots.

Also on the docket: push-up tips, Being Mortal by Atul Gawande for grieving and coping with aging parents, and The Flamingo Estate catalog for zaniness…and as a resource for anyone in L.A. who might want to receive a bag of manure as a gift.

Share your thoughts with us at 833-632-5463, [email protected], or @athingortwohq. And for more recommendations, try out a Secret Menu membership.

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