This week, I’ll tell you how to make peace with your past, calling out a ghoster, whether first date sex ruins everything, and how to know if you’re making healthy choices! .

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By now we know how to spot a douchebag… But what about a quality guy? I’ll tell you how to identify a keeper, explain why your f**kboy ex settled down, delve a little deeper into “too busy” guys, and of course, talk a little bit about porn and saving hoes. Maybe a lot? .

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Picture this: you have an amazing date and then he ghosts for a few days...or forever. I’ll tell you what’s actually happening behind the scenes, plus dealing with parental pressure and why we need to get REAL when we say we “can’t” dump a douchebag! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Each week designer Rebecca Minkoff speaks with inspiring women from all walks of life about their success and failures while also sharing lessons and tips they’ve learned along the way. https://open.spotify.com/show/3KCdjRAjeiGGJMgAvgRgEu?si=v16KtfV5RuCsWn7-4XyJtw

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Is “I’m a bad texter” code for “ just not into you?” I’ll break down disastrous digital behavior, explain how to move on after cheating, tell you the pros and cons of an open relationship, dismantle the anxiety behind being single, and explain why Adolf Hitler can be seriously helpful when a not-always-toxic relationship! .

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Can you change a cheater? Or train an unchivalrous manchild? I’ll tell you when to walk away, plus how to deal with a guy friend who’s caught feelings AND, one of the most self destructive things we can tell ourselves!. .

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Is trying to be the “cool girl” actually ruining your love life? I’ll explain what cool ACTUALLY looks like, and why anxiety is a symptom of an unheard intuition! Plus, a friend who keeps picking fights and what to do with an unmotivated man!. .

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Boy meets girl. Boy marries girl. Girl’s problems magically evaporate...right? This week I sit down with @KateTheWasp, my real-life friend behind the hilariously satirical “basic entitled white girl” account to Find out what life is really like on the other side of happily ever after. Plus we talk about our own abysmal body images, and what we would tell our younger selves. And check out Kate’s podcast, Good On Paper, for my guest spot too! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Each week designer Rebecca Minkoff speaks with inspiring women from all walks of life about their success and failures while also sharing lessons and tips they’ve learned along the way. https://open.spotify.com/show/3KCdjRAjeiGGJMgAvgRgEu?si=v16KtfV5RuCsWn7-4XyJtw

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Is astrology BS or are certain signs totally incompatible? I’ll spell it all out, and weigh the pros and cons of short guys, and dish on why you shouldn’t be jealous of his exes, but SHOULD beware of his female friends!. .

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Should you tell your boyfriend when other guys hit on you? I’ll break down a dude’s motivation for wanting to know, plus give you a script for embarrassing moments, unpack why guys lurk your social, and help you identify the “Hurtlocker” in your life! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Each week designer Rebecca Minkoff speaks with inspiring women from all walks of life about their success and failures while also sharing lessons and tips they’ve learned along the way. https://open.spotify.com/show/3KCdjRAjeiGGJMgAvgRgEu?si=v16KtfV5RuCsWn7-4XyJtw

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Is is unrealistic to expect guys to take you on dates? I’ll break it down, and reveal the one CRUCIAL attitude you must have when dating...and the absolute worst mentality of all!.

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