If you're looking for a raw, real, non-sugar coated look into dating and relationships, we got you. We're chatting with Todd Baratz – therapist, author, eharmony relationship expert, and IG account you're probably already following – about why you will lose your mind when it comes to love (and how this is totally normal). We're discussing the reality of relationships, a different way to evaluate if you're with the right person, and why the question is no longer 'should you stay or should you go' (and what it is instead!).

Other similar episodes:

The Truth About Relationships

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When you just start dating someone and you really, really, REALLY like them, it may even feel like love...but is it? And what happens when one of you says those three big words early on....did you actually mean it? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing how to differentiate between love and infatuation, ways to navigate these conversations, and why it's more important at the start of the relationship to focus on the bigger picture of building connection and less on the time or labeling of love.

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If you're feeling stuck in dating or your relationship, maybe the solution is a....no man diet. Wha? We're chatting with Kylie McBeath about how despite having an incredible partner (ahem Mark Groves who we talked to last season), there was something standing in her way of moving forward with him– so much that it caused her to end the relationship and enlist in a no man diet to get to the root of her dependency on men. We're discussing how taking an intentional pause can give you the necessary clarity, why there's so much more to avoidant tendencies than meets the eye, and ways to feel more secure so you can finally be all in (like Kylie was eventually able to do with Mark!)

Creating a Relationship 2.0 w/ Mark Groves

Healing Your Dating Wounds

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With so much happening in life, it can be hard to stay motivated to date –especially when you're not meeting the right people or having the results you want. In our first #brunchtalk of the season, we're discussing how to create a dating consumption strategy that's balanced with the right of life, how to better integrate dating into your life, and ways to manage both your time and energy when it comes to dating.

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It's hard not to take dating personally – especially when someone can't commit or doesn't want to see you again. But what we've learned is that it often has nothing to do with you, despite what we may think. Julie's diving into this topic as it's something that's been a challenge for her while dating – and even into her current relationship. Hopefully this will help you not take things as personally and use dating for what it's meant for: to find the right match.

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Dateables! We're so excited to be back start Season 19 with a bang, diving into the many contractions with modern dating and relationships that completely baffle us every day – and what action we can actually take with this information. We'll discuss what to do when it feels like there's no one good out there, why we're so afraid to settle yet we settle for situationships, and how we can approach dating with more connection instead of the disconnection so prevalent today.

Related Episodes:

The Reason You Don't Need To Be Good At Dating

An Alternative To Dating

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How much do you need to share about yourself, your upbringing, or your past relationships in the early stages of dating? In this week’s best of brunch talk we’re chatting about the line between oversharing and not sharing enough, how you can spin conversations you’d rather veer away from, and why the last thing you want to do is trauma dump on a first date.

And PS get your questions in because all new brunch talks start NEXT WEEK!

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We're back with our last episode before Season 19 begins next week!!! And this is a good one as we reair an episode we did with Damona Hoffman on her podcast, Dates & Mates, about how you can date with intention in a world that makes dating harder than ever before. We discuss why dating is harder than ever before – but also what you can do about it and have the best relationships of your life. Plus Damona closes out with a question around dating breaks and resets so if you're feeling burnout at all – this episode is for you!

Related Episodes:

F the Fairy Tale w/ Damona Hoffman: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/s18e2-f-the-fairy-tale-w-damona-hoffman/id1084105171?i=1000648160861 or https://open.spotify.com/episode/5W493uTZsYZYU0y3WV36Hk?si=fAnCGq8MS9u4Augv2wFvww

Follow Damona on Instagram @damonahoffmanand check out her podcast Dates & Mates on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever else you listen to podcasts. PS their new season starts today, so check it out!

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What happens when you meet someone great but the sex is well not so much? On this best of brunch talk, we're diving into how to handle this mismatch of expectation versus reality, why sex can fall short in the early stages even when the chemistry is there, and how to navigate the situation so you can turn this ship around (or get off in which ever way you interpret that). We're sharing some of our own stories and experiences, so whether you've been here before, experiencing this current day, or just want to get ahead of the situation, you'll likely relate and laugh along the way.

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How many of you get anxiety about using the bathroom when you're just starting to date someone new? Anyone? Yue is going there: taking us through her own bathroom anxieties while being utterly perplexed that her friend did not share the same sentiment in the slightest – so much that it lead to an investigation on the topic and this quickie for all of you.

TW: Talking about bathroom activities in this one. If this is not for you, check out our many other episodes.

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