Do you fear you are being gaslighted but you are not sure? If your mother is narcissistic or emotionally immature, there’s a high chance you have been receiving some degree of gaslighting. 

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that is causing you to second-guess yourself and doubt your perception of reality to the point that you end up depending on others and can’t rely on your own discernment. 

There are 3 main ways you might be gaslighted and probably you are only aware of one – by your narcissistic mother. 

In this episode you will learn to recognize the 3 main ways gaslighting might be used to control you and confuse you, so that you will be able to protect yourself going forward.

Recovery after being gaslighted starts with regaining control of your emotions (learning to regulate) and building a stronger sense of self.

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20 things your narcissistic mother can say to invalidate your feelings – the impact it has on adult daughters of narcissistic mothers & 3 steps to heal

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Do you want to know why recovering from maternal narcissistic abuse feels so challenging? Why is the mother wound so difficult to shift? The answer is: there’s one specific block that truly holds you back.

Most daughters when asked what is the one thing they need to overcome they answer: guilt, anxiety, fear of rejection, people-pleasing patterns and so on… none of these things is the actual first block that needs to be shifted in order to heal and transform your life after narcissistic abuse. 

There’s one thing that comes first. Everything else will follow. 

Listen to this episode to learn what is the main block you need to overcome to fully recover from narcissistic abuse from your mother, what happens if you don’t and, most importantly, how to shift it so that you can move the needle and start thriving in your life. 

You shouldn’t feel like you don’t deserve the support you need to heal the trauma you carry and you won’t have to once you understand what is holding you back.

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To know more about the wound that holds you back listen to:
Ep 26 The Number One Wound From Maternal Narcissism & How It Impacts Your Life

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Do you ask yourself if your mother is truly narcissistic or “just” emotionally immature? And most importantly, does this make a difference for your recovery and healing journey?

Most daughters of either narcissistic or emotionally immature mothers don’t truly understand the difference, and get caught in trying to figure this out instead of focusing on their own healing. 

Listen to this episode to:

1-     Gain clarity on the real differences between narcissistic and emotionally immature

2-     Get clear on the common trait between the two that truly matters for your recovery and healing. 

Transforming your life is not about labels but about knowing what your next step is. Listen to the full episode to know to know how to heal the mother wound and shift from surviving to thriving. 

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To know more about if a narcissistic mother can have empathy listen to:
Ep 57 Can a Narcissistic Mother Have Empathy??
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As a daughter, do you want to know why guilt and enmeshment keep you stuck in a cycle of pain for life? Here it is: because your mother has conditioned to feel responsible for her moods and emotions since you were a child. 

As daughters of narcissistic mothers we are all familiar with the feeling of guilt that comes up anytime we want to set a boundary, but what about when that guilt is omnipresent any time your mother is upset? What can you do then? Whether your mother is narcissistic, emotionally immature or just self-absorbed, this conditioning is one you need to recover from in order to transform your life. 

In this episode I share when the conditioning actually started (most people don’t know this), the main examples of what your mother might be saying to you that has confirmed the patterns of guilt, and the impossible choice between being a “good daughter” if you please her or a “bad daughter” when you upset her that you should have never been forced to make.

Listen now to gain clarity on this mother wound that is controlling your life, and to know what you can do to break free. 

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To know more about breaking free from the guilt you feel listen here:
Ep 103 Guilt: the biggest mistake we make when dealing with guilt & 3 steps to heal it for daughters of narcissistic mothers

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Ep 60 Wedding Planning with a Narcissistic Mother - What can happen & How to deal with
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Have you tried everything to recover from your mother's abuse and yet you are still feeling stuck and not in control of your life? You are not alone. 85% of daughters of narcissistic mothers who have completed our assessment say they understand the problem but they don't know how to change it.
The first step in healing mother wounds and recovering from abuse is to become aware of what is happening, but what about when we get stuck there? 
Many remain stuck in a cycle of consuming podcasts, books, and labels without experiencing tangible change in their lives. 
In this episode I share how to avoid the trap you risk falling into that will hold you stuck in survival mode. 
You pain has lasted a lifetime, your recovery doesn't have to. 

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Ep 77 A 3 Steps Process to Set Successful Boundaries with Your Narcissistic Mother

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Do you want to know how to break free from people-pleasing, procrastination and perfectionism? 
To do that there's one thing you need to understand about these 3 patterns... one thing all of them have in common.
By getting this one thing these patterns will stop defining you and you will be able to see a real shift in your life.

It is common to develop survival patterns when growing up with a narcissistic mother, actually it is nearly impossible not to. Learning that these patterns do not define you but can be shifted is a truly essential piece for your healing journey and recovering from maternal narcissistic abuse. 

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Ep 133 - Perfectionism holds you back: 10 signs to recognise it and 2 steps to help. A quick test for you to know if perfectionism is holding you back.

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Do you want to know why most daughters of narcissistic mothers remain stuck in the cycle of pain and toxicity never fully breaking free? 

There’s an immense value in learning about maternal narcissism and the trauma we carry as a result of it. This helps bring awareness to the topic and give words to what we have experienced, or are still experiencing. But awareness alone is not enough to bring true resolution and healing. Awareness is the first step, not the only one. To fully recover from maternal narcissistic abuse, and not only that, but to fully break free, reclaim your life and be your authentic self, there are 2 more steps you need to take. In this episode I share what these 2 steps are and the fundamental difference between following old patterns on rehearsing, and actually resolving. 

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Episode 155 The 4 main survival patterns daughters of narcissistic mothers must be aware of to heal and break free from abuse

Episode 150 How to break free from your narcissistic mother's abuse - this will surprise you

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Do you want to know why despite years of therapy and other healing modalities you still feel guilt, anxiety, you still double-guess yourself and keep on people-pleasing? Do you want to know why you keep feeling stuck and you still get caught in the same patterns even though you have learnt all about them? 
This is because you are still carrying trauma in your body and talking does not heal trauma. It can help you become aware of it, but that's only the first step. 
If we remain stuck in talking, or in other tools that only work with rational thinking, we never truly break free. 
In this episode I share why every client I've worked with came to me feeling broken and defeated despite having tried many different healing modalities, and I share what made the difference. This is what made the difference in my own life too, as a daughter of a narcissistic mother recovering from abuse and trauma in my own body. I also share the price I had to pay before I realised that I needed to go deeper, so you don't have to go through the same pain too. 

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Do you want to know the impact of maternal narcissism has on your life still today? To get that, you need to know your main coping pattern. There are four main coping patterns.
These survival patterns affect your life no matter how much time has passed, no matter the distance between yourself and your narcissistic mother, no matter how many effective boundaries you've set.
Very often, despite years of therapy, we still live a life of survival. Positive mindset and rational reframing won't heal these patterns either.
But there's good news!! By becoming aware of which is your main coping pattern, you can then take the next step and intentionally repair these patterns, reclaiming your life, your joy and your freedom.
The first step to recover from maternal narcissistic abuse is to become aware of how this is still impacting you in your life, relationship, career, parenting, health...

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Episode 125 Healing the mother wound with a narcissistic mother: 3 things you need

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Do you want to know why your narcissistic mother's silent treatment has such an effect? If this toxic behaviour leaves you feeling anxious, confused and hurting you are not alone in this.
A narcissistic mother will use the silent treatment as a way to control and punish you, to get you to fall back in line.
Each time it leaves you dysregulated and yet it doesn't have to be this way. High chances are your mother won't change, but there's something you can do to break free from this manipulation.

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