How much is the drama your mother creates over nothing impacting your life? Are you putting her needs in front of your all the time just to avoid her drama? It is common for a narcissistic mother to use drama control and manipulate those around her, especially her children.
This will not only often create patterns of people pleasing in her adult children, but also will impact their life. Self-sabotaging, lack of motivation, over-controlling and people-pleasing pattern are a common consequence of this over-dramatic and manipulative behaviour.
As a daughter of a narcissistic mother you don't need the drama anymore, but there's something you need to be aware of, and this is what I'm sharing with you today.

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How is your narcissistic mother's abuse impacting your life? Do you want to know why despite all the boundaries and maybe even going no contact, you are still not free from the pain she caused you?
Breaking free from your narcissistic mother's abuse and toxicity requires two types of work, and most people stop at the first one, never truly breaking free.
In this episode I share with you how to truly break free, all the way to completely transform your life, by taking care of the second and most important aspect of this healing journey.
Missing this crucial step will affect everything in life, including your physical wellbeing, your relationships, your career, your parenting and your overall happiness.
Taking this step, on the other hand, will completely transform your life! 

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Has your narcissistic mother cut contact with you? Does that leave you feeling she robbed you of your choice to go no contact? The she robbed you of your chance at closure?
The silent treatment is a frequently used way by a narcissistic mother to punish her children, but she may not stop there. She can go all the way as to actively go no contact with you. And this can truly hurt. It will trigger the childhood trauma that is already there, in particular the abandonment wound that's related to having a mother who is emotionally unavailable.
In this episode I answer the question of a listener whose mother went no contact, and share one thing that will truly help if this is the case for you.
This solution can also be very effective in the case of a prolonged silent treatment.

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Are you wondering if your mother is truly a narcissist? How is this confusion impacting your life?
Research about narcissism shows that only 2% of people labelled narcissistic are actually diagnosable narcissists. All the rest have narcissistic behaviours or traits. And then there are a bunch of other labels, like bipolar, borderline personality disorder, avoidant and dependant personality disorder etc...
So where does your mother fit into all of this?
In this episode I share #1 behaviour you have to watch out for, that goes beyond labels. I also share 3 characteristic to spot this behaviour so you can then take the measure you need to protect yourself from it.

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Do you feel setting a boundary with your narcissistic mother would mean you don't care for her? Or that it would make you a bad daughter? Does that result in you silently taking abuse after abuse all in the name of caring for her?

One of the things I get told very often is: I’m not able to set boundaries because I care for her too much.
Something that is often assumed is that setting a boundary (which could go all the way to no contact or not) means you don't care about your mother. The thing is: you can still care, but you don’t have to take the abuse.

We end up mixing caring and remaining silent in the face of abuse because as "good daughters" we feel we need to be responsible for our mother's emotionality.
Her emotionality is not and never should have been your responsibility.
Feeling responsible for your narcissistic mother emotionality is a result of enmeshment. 
In this episode I share 3 steps to break the pattern of enmeshment and reclaim your own life.
Your mother is not the protagonist in your life, YOU ARE!

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Do you feel your narcissistic mother drains all your energy leaving none for you?
 A narcissistic mother takes up all your energy, even from a distance, and leaves none for you to fully live your life.
 So, what can be done?
 In this episode I will share with you how you can reclaim your life, beyond the setting of boundaries, which you may have done already.
 Without this steps even well set boundaries may fail in giving you back your life.
 What I will give you today is something way more effective than no contact and that can be applied no matter what your level of contact is.
 There are two steps you can take today to reclaim your life and energy, and stop feeling exhausted and drained after any interaction with your narcissistic mother, or even after thinking about her.
 
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