Secret Life

Dismissive Avoidant


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In this compelling episode of the Secret Life podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the intricacies of dismissive avoidant attachment styles. Exploring how this challenging attachment style manifests in relationships, Brianne dissects the behaviors and underlying fears that drive dismissive avoidance. From the initial love-bombing phase to the eventual emotional withdrawal, she explains how dismissive avoidants prioritize independence and suppress their emotions, making it difficult for partners to connect on a deeper level.

Brianne also contrasts dismissive avoidants with fearful avoidants, highlighting the distinct ways they handle intimacy and relationships. She provides valuable insights on recognizing the red flags of dismissive avoidance and offers advice for those entangled in such relationships. Tune in to understand the complexities of dismissive avoidant attachment and learn how to navigate these emotionally taxing dynamics.

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Dismissive Avoidant, Attachment Styles, Fear of Intimacy, Love Bombing, Emotional Withdrawal, Relationship Challenges, Avoidant Behavior, Emotional Suppression, Trauma Bonding, Codependency, Narcissism, Inner Child Work, Trauma Healing, Emotional Independence

(00:00) One of the hardest ones to work with is dismissive avoidance

(01:20) Welcome to Secret Life podcast. Today I'm pulling back the curtains of all kinds of human secrets

(01:52) Dismissive avoidance is one of the worst attachment styles to work with

(03:11) A lot of people are having characteristics of dismissive avoidance when dating online

(09:26) Two people I'm working with are dating dismissive avoidance

(15:27) Excessive need for communication, assuming how they're feeling, jumping to conclusion

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