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In this episode, I’m digging into Weight Loss Truths 77 through 80 and this one’s for anyone who’s ever talked down to themselves over a slice of pizza or who thinks Monday is the only day that counts.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

77. You have to change the way you talk to yourself about food
If the words “cheat,” “treat,” or “junk” are in heavy rotation, this one’s for you. Language matters. The way you talk to yourself about food is often just a mirror of how you talk to yourself in general and I want to help you spot it and shift it.

78. You have to change the way you think about food
If pizza still feels like a moral failing and kale feels like penance, we need to talk. You’re not going to get anywhere sustainable if your thoughts around food are still swinging between punishment and reward. I’m not aiming for food euphoria here I just want you to get to food neutrality.

79. Weigh yourself once a week
Yes, I said it. Once. A. Week. Not daily. Not “whenever you feel curious.” The scale can help or it can destroy your motivation, depending on how often you’re stepping on it.

80. Do it on a Wednesday
Wednesdays don’t carry the emotional baggage that Mondays do, and they give your body time to recover from weekend sodium overload. It's the most emotionally and physiologically neutral day of the week so let's give poor little Monday a break and make Wednesday your weigh-in day.

This episode is all about self-talk, mindset, and finding a rhythm that actually works for you — without letting food or the scale ruin your week.

Listen to this episode if:

• You’re caught in a guilt/shame spiral with food
• You weigh yourself constantly and feel discouraged
• You still think of food as “good” or “bad”
• You want a more sustainable (and sane) way to approach weight loss

Mentioned in this episode:

• Why cheat day language is so dangerous
• The importance of food neutrality
• My own experience giving the scale to my mother-in-law (yes, really)
• Why salt might be lying to you on Monday mornings

If you’ve been blaming pizza or the scale for your setbacks, this episode is your wake-up call. Let’s stop the spiral and shift toward something more helpful — and more honest.

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Truths 73–76:
73. We All Self-Sabotage
74. The Only Way to Make It Stop Is to Keep Going
75. Nobody Loses Weight in a Straight Line
76. There Are No Fat Absorbing Foods

This one goes deep and a little sideways.

I’m diving into self-sabotage—why we all do it, how sneaky it can be, and what it looks like when you’re the one putting the donuts in the cart or making that “harmless” call to your mother you know is going to end in chips and chaos.

Then I talk about the one truth that nobody wants to hear but everybody needs: the only way to make it stop is to keep going. You want the noise to quiet down? You want the weight loss spiral to end? You have to push through it. Because stopping just brings the pain right back.

We also get into the reality that nobody loses weight in a straight line. Not even the Gladyses. It’s bumpy. It’s annoying. It’s normal. And yes, sometimes the scale is rude. We’re not shocked.

And finally? There are no fat-absorbing foods. Sorry. No soup, no rice, no magical tea is going to soak up your chips and send them to calorie purgatory. That’s not a thing. Not even a little bit.

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Truths 69–72:
69. Everything is Relative, Especially Weight Loss
70. Your Hands Should Be Empty When You Chew
71. Dogs Don’t Cluck
72. You Don’t Have to Focus on Macros

This one’s packed.

I’m diving into four more weight loss truths—and they might hit close to home. We’re talking about why “a lot” of food is completely relative, why putting your taco down matters more than you think, how asking someone to respect your boundaries (when they never have) might actually be self-sabotage, and why tracking macros is optional no matter what Gladys says.

These are mindset-shifting truths that can help you stop spinning your wheels and start making changes that actually stick.

Come for the taco talk, stay for the dog metaphors—and maybe let yourself off the macro hook while you’re at it.

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This is part 10 in the 101 Weight Loss Truths series, and today’s truths cover everything from hydration and language to shame and self-kindness.

In this episode:
 64. Water helps just as much as everybody says it does
 65. Gladys is as Gladys does
 66. Cheat days are a very, very bad idea
 67. Feeling bad about myself never stopped me from eating
 68. Feeling good about myself has stopped me more times than I can count

I talks about the emotional impact of cheat days, the truth about motivation, and how feeling good—not bad—actually helps stop overeating. I also breaks down the “Gladys” mindset and why water really does matter (even if you’re tired of hearing about it).

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We’re back in the 101 Weight Loss Truths series — and this week we’re tackling four big ones that can make or break your progress.

In this episode:

✅ WLT #60: The 20 Minute Rule
It takes 20 minutes for your stomach to tell your brain it's full. Learn how this changed my entire weight loss journey and why it can change yours too.

✅ WLT #61: Stop Adding Fitness Tracker Calories Back
Fitness tracker accuracy is a hot mess. Here’s why adding those "burned" calories back is likely sabotaging your deficit.

✅ WLT #62: Experimenting With Food is a Good Idea
Be brave and try new foods — it’s part of changing your relationship with food, even if not every experiment is a winner.

✅ WLT #63: Don’t Eat Foods You Don't Like
Here’s why forcing yourself to eat foods you can’t stand just leads to overeating later. Permission to stop the avocado toast misery granted.

We’ll also talk about:

• How guilt and shame sabotage your eating patterns
• Why slowing down is one of the most powerful weight loss tools
• The truth about calorie burn and entitlement eating
• The importance of flexibility and satisfaction in what you eat

If this is helping you, make sure to subscribe and check out the full 101 Weight Loss Truths series.

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• My Cookbook 'Disruptor'
• Free Guide ‘Getting Started for the Last Time’
• Weight Loss Workbook Disruptor, find anywhere in the world on Amazon by searching “Disruptor Charlotte Skanes”
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We are back with the next instalment of the 101 Weight Loss Truths series. Today we are covering WLTs 57 to 59, and I promise, this is one episode you do not want to skip.

Here is what we are diving into:

• WLT 57: You are going to want some of your fat clothes
• WLT 58: You are going to want the pictures
• WLT 59: You are going to want the measurements

I know these three sound uncomfortable. In fact, they are probably three of the scariest steps on your journey. But they are also three of the most motivating, practical tools you can use to track progress and stay connected to what you are achieving.

This is not about shame. It is about building trust with yourself and giving yourself concrete proof that your efforts are working, even when the scale is not telling the whole story.

In this episode, I will share:

• Why keeping a few of your old clothes can help combat body dysmorphia and fuel your motivation
• Why taking progress pictures (even when you are terrified) is a gift to your future self
• Why measurements, though scary, give you the most precise feedback on your progress
• How to gamify these tools and make them work for you
• How I use these tools in my own journey, and why I wish I had embraced them even sooner

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• My Cookbook 'Disruptor'
• Free Guide ‘Getting Started for the Last Time’
• Weight Loss Workbook Disruptor, find anywhere in the world on Amazon by searching “Disruptor Charlotte Skanes”
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We are continuing our 101 Weight Loss Truths series, and today we are diving into some deeply important truths that will help shift your mindset around eating and your ability to move forward.

Here is what we are covering in this episode:

• WLT 54: You have to be present with your food
• WLT 55: You have to be mindful with your food
• WLT 56: It does not matter how many times you have tried to lose weight before

You will learn the key difference between being present with your food and being mindful with your food. They are not the same thing, and both matter if you are trying to rebuild your relationship with food and with yourself.

I will also share why it does not matter how many times you have tried before, or how many times you feel like you have failed. You absolutely can lose the weight, no matter how discouraged you feel right now.

This episode is all about shifting out of shame and into trust with yourself. I will also share some personal stories, including moments from my own journey where I felt completely defeated and certain that I could not do this. Spoiler alert: I was wrong. And so are you.

If you need a boost today, or if you are stuck in the mindset of "I can't do this," this episode is for you.

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We are back with the sixth instalment of the 101 Weight Loss Truths series. Today we are covering WLTs 50 to 53, and this is a really practical, foundational episode.

Here is what we are diving into:

• WLT 50: Spread, Sprinkle, Pour
• WLT 51: Control Your Vehicles
• WLT 52: Food Can Be Healthy Without Being Helpful
• WLT 53: The 3A Way

If you have been with me for a while, you will know Spread, Sprinkle, Pour is one of my all-time favourite concepts because it is the easiest way to start making small, incremental, but meaningful changes to your eating.

You will also hear why controlling your vehicles (the foods that deliver other foods to your mouth) is a game-changer, why "healthy" does not always mean "helpful" when you are trying to lose weight, and why the 3A Way (Awareness, Acknowledgement, Accountability) is one of the most powerful tools you can apply to any part of your journey.

In this episode, I also talk about my free Spread, Sprinkle, Pour webinar and worksheets, which can help you implement these ideas right away. You will find the link below.

If you are new to my world, or if you are looking for an accessible, realistic way to start making changes without flipping your life upside down, this episode will help.

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Welcome back to Part 5 of my ongoing series, 101 Weight Loss Truths. This episode covers WLTs 43-49, Gladys triggers, and uncomfortable facts that the diet industry doesn’t want you to hear. From calorie tracking and detox myths to carbs, fruit, artificial sweeteners, and why no, your waist trainer isn’t doing a damn thing.

If you’ve ever felt guilty about eating potatoes or second-guessed your Diet Coke, this one’s for you.

In this episode, I cover:

• Why calorie tracking is the only real shortcut
• The emotional damage of failing fads
• The truth about detoxes, teas, waist trainers & other nonsense
• Why carbs, fruit, and processed foods are not the enemy
• How diet culture tricks you into blaming yourself
• And why you absolutely can’t spot-reduce fat

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, share it with a friend, or leave a review. It really helps the podcast reach more women and makes it easier for others to feel a little less alone on their journey.

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• Free Guide ‘Getting Started for the Last Time’
• Weight Loss Workbook Disruptor, find anywhere in the world on Amazon by searching “Disruptor Charlotte Skanes”
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This week on the podcast, we’re continuing with my series on 101 Weight Loss Truths! In this stretch, these truths are all about mindset, measurement, and motivation. From the emotional power of non-scale victories, to the importance of managing your expectations, I’m diving into the mental shifts that keep real, lasting weight loss moving forward. These truths are essential if you’ve ever felt frustrated by slow progress or discouraged by unrealistic goals, because we’ve all been there! 

Tune in to hear more on:
 • Why non-scale victories (NSVs) matter just as much, and sometimes more, than the number on the scale.
 • How a mental NSV, like leaving food on your plate, can be as transformational as losing pounds.
 • The difference between realistic and unrealistic goals, and why “possible” isn’t the same as “plausible.”
 • Why setting too-high goals may secretly be a form of self-sabotage.
 • How managing expectations helps you avoid burnout and disappointment.
 • Why weight loss is a psychological and emotional journey, not just a physical one.
 • How small, incremental changes are the key to evolving into the person you want to be.

We all want results, but what keeps us going is how we feel while we’re doing the work. I hope these truths will help you stay the course, keep showing up, and trust that steady change is what really lasts. Remember: keep trying, keep tracking, don’t be intimidated, and don’t give up. You’ve totally got this!

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Looking for help on your weight loss journey?
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• My Cookbook 'Disruptor'
• Free Guide ‘Getting Started for the Last Time’
• Weight Loss Workbook Disruptor, find anywhere in the world on Amazon by searching “Disruptor Charlotte Skanes”
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