1. How purity culture has affected this couple's marriage in very different ways.

2. How M handled K's "don't touch me!" vibe in her first pregnancy.

3. Where their communication broke down in the bedroom and how they've changed it.

4. M's initial resistance to my advice in the Wanting It More program and how he feels now, 3 years later.

5. The unique way K transitions into the sexual experience that may surprise you!

6. How K is handling the changes in her body after baby #2 - which is proving to be more difficult than she expected.

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1. Is it guilt or shame? What's the difference?

2. How cultural messaging influences our feelings of guilt.

3. What to blame instead of each other.

4. Janna's opinion on what’s “owed” to your partner.

5. The single most important quality for a successful marriage.

6. When guilt is actually warranted in the bedroom.

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Janna's Program: Wanting It More

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Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

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1. Why safety is the key to women wanting it in the bedroom

2. The reasons why communicating our preferences is the first step to feeling safe

3. 4 things women are supposed to like in the bedroom, but Janna doesn't

4. Common reactions that husbands have when women say no in the bedroom

5. The hardest and best thing Janna did in her own marriage to establish her own safety

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1. 2 types of ways to want it in the bedroom, and the differences between them

2. Why waiting for those “tingly feelings” can be a waste of energy

3. What science is teaching us about “getting in the mood”

4. How Janna has regular experiences while rarely being in the mood.

5. The 5 motivations for sex that don't involve a physical reason

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To view the Venn Diagram mentioned in this episode, please view the episode on my website here: Venn Diagram

“Come as You Are” by Emily Nagoski

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1. 3 barriers to learning about our bodies (it's not as simple as it sounds)

2. A few critical pieces of information that Janna learned early on which made a big difference

3. Janna's favourite book recommendation to learn the science of female bodies

4. 3 steps you can take to learn about your preferences in the bedroom

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

To view the Venn Diagram mentioned in this episode, please view the episode on my website here: Venn Diagram

“Come as You Are” by Emily Nagoski

My Program: Wanting It More

Watch the video: Video

Get Janna's FREE 3-part video series for women, The Real Reason You Don't Want Sex.

Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

Join the waitlist for the Oct./Nov. 2025 round of Doing It Together here.

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1. The one bedroom word Janna hate that everyone else loves

2. 7 toxic cultural messages that create issues in the bedroom

3. The only 2 goals I encourage for together time

4. How anger can be a force for good in the bedroom

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

To view the Venn Diagram mentioned in this episode, please view the episode on my website here: Venn Diagram

My Program: Wanting It More

Get Janna's FREE 3-part video series for women, The Real Reason You Don't Want Sex.

Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

Join the waitlist for the Oct./Nov. 2025 round of Doing It Together here.

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

1. What Janna means by emotional and physical safety in a relationship

2. Why safety is such an important element of women wanting it in the bedroom

3. The differences between a lack of safety and abuse

4. The reasons why a marriage can be lacking emotional safety for women

5. How building emotional and physical safety can change everything in the bedroom

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

To view the Venn Diagram mentioned in this episode, please view the episode on my website here: Venn Diagram

My Program: Wanting It More

Get Janna's FREE 3-part video series for women, The Real Reason You Don't Want Sex.

Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

Join the waitlist for the Oct./Nov. 2025 round of Doing It Together here.

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Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

1. Janna's story and experience with not wanting it with her husband

2. Why women aren’t broken if they don’t want it with their husbands

3. The common reasons why women don’t want it in the bedroom

4. How Janna's approach is different from traditional advice that women often get from medical professionals

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

To view the Venn Diagram mentioned in this episode, please view the website here: The Three Requirements Venn Diagram

Janna's Program: Wanting It More

Get Janna's FREE 3-part video series for women, The Real Reason You Don't Want Sex.

Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

Join the waitlist for the Oct./Nov. 2025 round of Doing It Together here.

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

1. Janna outlines why the podcast is changing and what that will look like

2. How Janna’s business model is shifting to honour her need for simplicity

3. What to expect from upcoming episodes

4. Listen now to hear about why Janna is making these shifts

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Janna's Program: Wanting It More

Get Janna's FREE 3-part video series for women, The Real Reason You Don't Want Sex.

Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

Join the waitlist for the Oct./Nov. 2025 round of Doing It Together here.

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

1. Reasons why talking about what happens in the bedroom can be uncomfortable

2. How we can overcome the shame and awkwardness of talking about it

3. Ways in which the cultural mainstream impacts women’s capacity for enjoyment

4. How we can demystify what happens when we have sex

5. Why our early experiences learning about sex can impact our capacity for talking about it openly as adults

GUEST BIOS:

Lisa lives in the United States with her busy toddler and husband of nine years. She works from home in I.T. and dreams of one day having a pond with koi fish and a fountain. As an alumni of my Wanting It More Program, she continues to offer really great insights in my online community along with some profound revelations about her journey.

Laura Froyen, PHD is a Marriage and Family Therapist who not only took sex therapy classes in graduate school but worked with couples in their sexual relationships and recieved sex therapy herself. In her professional life, she now helps individuals, partners, and co-parents become the parents they are longing to be.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Janna's Program: Wanting It More

Get Janna's FREE 3-part video series for women, The Real Reason You Don't Want Sex.

Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

Join the waitlist for the Oct./Nov. 2025 round of Doing It Together here.

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.