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EPISODE 24: DYING LAUGHING'S HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE: CHRISTMAS EDITION
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
The holidays come with a lot of pressure to spend, perform, and recreate traditions exactly the way they’ve always been done. In this episode, Jessimae offers a different approach.
Recorded with her niece in studio, Dying Laughing’s Holiday Survival Guide: Christmas Edition is about ditching perfection and making Christmas fun and weird instead. Jessimae shares practical ways to lower expectations, break old rules, and find joy without overspending or emotionally spiraling.
This episode is a reminder that you don’t owe anyone a perfect holiday...you just deserve one that doesn’t make you miserable.
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George Washington's Egg Nog Recipe: https://www.almanac.com/george-washingtons-christmas-eggnog
Insight Timer: David Ji
Dying Laughing's Holiday Movie List:
Home Alone
Elf
Four Christmas's
Krampus
The Family Stone
Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
EMAIL: [email protected]
Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 23: THE GRIEF OF JOY | JESSIMAE PELUSO
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
This episode explores what happens when joy and grief collide. In a week marked by devastating headlines including the mass shooting in Bondi and the loss of cultural icon Rob Reiner, Jessimae found herself coming off one of the most joyful comedy weekends of her career, and sitting with an uncomfortable question:
Am I allowed to feel good right now?
The Grief of Joy is a grounded, honest reflection on emotional whiplash, collective grief, and the guilt that can come with happiness during hard times. Jessimae unpacks why laughter isn’t denial or disrespect, but a vital form of regulation and survival and how learning to hold both sorrow and joy is part of emotional adulthood.
This episode is about honoring loss without shrinking joy, and allowing relief to exist without apology when the world feels heavy.
💀 Subscribe, share, and listen with an open heart
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Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
EMAIL: [email protected]
Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 22: DYING LAUGHING'S HOLIDAY SURVIVAL — THANKSGIVING EDITION
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
In this special Thanksgiving episode, Jessimae Peluso returns to her hometown of Syracuse, NY to share a comedic and heartfelt Holiday Survival Guide. From family dynamics and childhood nostalgia to managing grief during the holidays, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical emotional tools.
Jessimae covers micro-joys, boundary-setting, holiday triggers, and the surprising science behind gratitude, drawing from researchers like Dr. Robert Emmons (UC Davis), Sue Johnson, and Amir Levine. She also offers coping strategies for political conversations, unsolicited questions, and the chaotic energy of Thanksgiving Eve - the biggest bar night of the year.
A warm, relatable, and laugh-out-loud guide for anyone navigating the complexity of the holidays.
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Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
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Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 21: FEAR & LOAFING — HOW GRIEF CONSUMES YOU
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
In this rereleased episode, (Part 6 of Grief Survival Guide miniseries) Fear & Loafing: How Grief Consumes You, Jessimae opens up about the ways she coped after losing both of her parents — from emotional eating and drinking to feeling unmotivated, inconsistent, and overwhelmed by fear. She explores how indulgence can become both a comfort and a cost during grief, and how loss can shift from agony into transformation through emotional excavation and self-awareness.
If you've ever coped with grief through food, alcohol, avoidance, or anything in between, this honest and relatable episode will resonate deeply.
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Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
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Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 20: THE LANGUAGE OF LOSS
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
This episode is about the hardest gift we ever give — letting go. Jessimae shares what she learned from planning her dog Carlin’s last day: how she knew it was time, the choice between home or hospital, and how even grief has its own language.
It’s tender, funny, and full of love because that’s what Carlin gave her every single day.
💀 Subscribe, share, and hug your pup for Carlin. ❤️
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🎁 Listener Prompt: What’s your favorite story about your dog or loved one?
🐶 Gold Coast Mobile Veterinary Care: https://goldcoastmobilevetcare.com
🎵 Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
EMAIL: [email protected]
Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 19: HUNGER & JEALOUSY — HOW GRIEF EATS AT YOU
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
In this rereleased episode from The Stages of Grief series, Jessimae dives into the emotional appetite of loss — that weird, hollow feeling that’s part sadness, part starvation.
She explores how grief can make you feel insatiable, jealous, and constantly searching for something to fill the space that loss leaves behind. From emotional eating to envy scrolling, she breaks down how grief doesn’t just hurt your heart — it hijacks your hunger.
Jessimae also shares how cannabis became part of her healing journey, helping her process pain, stay present, and rediscover moments of peace and humor in between the heaviness.
It’s raw, honest, and surprisingly relatable — because sometimes grief doesn’t just break you; it gives you the munchies.
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Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
EMAIL: [email protected]
Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 18: LIFE LESSONS FROM MY PITBULL : SAYING GOODBYE TO A PET
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
This episode is a love letter to my dog, Carlin Joseph Peluso, the happiest pitbull on Earth and the longest relationship I’ve ever had. As I prepare to say goodbye, I reflect on the weird, beautiful process of anticipatory grief and the lessons he’s taught me about loyalty, joy, and letting go.
It’s funny, raw, and full of love because that’s what he gave me every single day.
In this episode, I share:
– What it’s like to prepare for loss before it happens
– What pets teach us about love, trust, and living in the moment
– Why every new loss is a chance to release an old one
– The joy and chaos of owning a pitbull
– And how to find laughter, even in heartbreak
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Hug your pup for Carlin. ❤️
Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
EMAIL: [email protected]
Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 17: MAX LUGAVERE ON DEMENTIA, DIET & THE SCIENCE OF HEALING
Dying Laughing with Jessimae (rereleased episode from December 2020)
Max shares his deeply personal journey through his mother’s diagnosis of Lewy Body Dementia, how it changed his family, and the relentless reality of caring for someone with a degenerative disease. Together, they unpack the emotional toll of dementia, the beauty and pain of end-of-life preparations, and the moments of unexpected kindness that help us survive it.
They also nerd out on the science:
– How nutrition impacts brain health and longevity
– The truth about “anti-aging” and foods to avoid
– The power of sleep, music, and connection in healing
– And how to care for your brain before it’s too late
It’s heartfelt, educational, and filled with moments of laughter — proof that grief and growth can coexist.
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🖤 Listener Prompt: What’s one thing you do to take care of your brain and your heart?
Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
EMAIL: [email protected]
Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 16: MY DEAD DAD’S BIRTHDAY: CHICKEN RIGGIES & FLATULENCE
Dying Laughing with Jessimae
Today would’ve been my dad’s birthday, and instead of ignoring the day—or crying into a store-bought cupcake—I decided to celebrate him the best way I know how: by telling stories, roasting his quirks, and making chicken riggies for my family. It's an Upstate thing!
In this episode, I share memories of my dad and reflect on the weirdness of celebrating a birthday for someone who’s no longer here. We talk about the chaos of grief birthdays, why food is the ultimate love language in an Italian family, and the ways you can honor your own loved one on their special day—even after they’re gone.
You’ll hear:
– A “Roast in Peace” of my dad’s funniest quirks
– Why grief birthdays are equal parts heartbreaking and healing
– 6 ways to celebrate someone you’ve lost on their birthday
– And why carbs, candles, and comedy are the only real grief plan you need
So happy birthday, Dad. You’re still here every time we laugh, remember, and eat too much pasta.
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Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Mix: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930
EMAIL: [email protected]
Outro music "Breathe" by Tyler Labine & Adanac.
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EPISODE 15: THE STAGES OF GRIEF: SADNESS & SHOPPING
Dying Laughing with Jessimae (Rereleased episode from 2020)
In this rereleased episode—recorded just weeks after my mom passed—I tried to make sense of the unthinkable by doing what any grieving comedian-slash-daughter might do: I put the fun in orphan.
This is one of the first raw reflections I recorded post-loss, and it’s full of emotional spirals, weird shopping habits, and unexpected breakthroughs. I talk about the panic and disorientation that comes with becoming an adult orphan, the grief glow-up no one asks for, and how loss forces you to transform—whether you’re ready or not.
You’ll hear:
Why your mood can dictate your style
How grief shows up in your body
Ways to connect with loved ones after they’re gone
How nature heals sadness
5 surprisingly helpful ways to deal with uncertainty
And how to feel grief through all five senses
This episode was part of my personal Stages of Grief before we even broke down the classic five. If you’re shopping sad, crying in the garden, or trying to parent yourself—you’re not alone.
🖤 I hope these tender episodes help you heal as a part of the new Dying Laughing journey.
"Where do we go when we die?" Email your opinion @ [email protected]
Eulogy By A Physicist: https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4675953
Fxckin ridiculous grief quiz:
https://www.psycom.net/complicated-grief-quiz
For more grief support check out this article:
https://nickwignall.com/grief/
Stages of grief:
https://www.verywellmind.com/five-stages-of-grief-4175361
Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG
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Outro music: Breathe by Two Person Sex Cult
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From the publisher's feed
Welcome to Dying Laughing — the comedy podcast that explores grief in all its messy, magical, and mortifying glory.
Hosted by stand-up comedian, Netflix host, and professional grief reliever Jessimae Peluso aka your favorite “comedy death doula" and "griefluencer” , this show dares to laugh in the face of death, because if you’re not laughing, you’re crying in a Marshall’s fitting room while listening to Fleetwood Mac on repeat.
You’re going to lose a lot in this life: your loved ones, your job, your dog (way harder than your ex), your relationship, your mind, your appetite and yes, your favorite necklace that your dad gave you (which your toxic ex absolutely kept).
While all of that sounds brutal, it can also be beautiful. I call it brutiful.
Each week, I invite you into real, raw, and ridiculously funny conversations about how we survive loss, reclaim joy, and sometimes ugly-cry in public. Everything deserves a proper burial - even our dignity.
Welcome to Dying Laughing with Jessimae. 💀🖤
Editing by: Debbie Dellorso.🐿️
Podcast music: 🎵 "Consider Death" by Akira the Don
New show. New name. Same Jessimae. Follow @JessimaePeluso + subscribe now wherever you get your podcasts. 💀🎤
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