Codependent people think, they could solve their emotional problems through love, validation and masking while being in a relationship.

But the truth is, emotional independence actually is achieved through self-love, clear boundaries and expressing emotions and needs.

In today’s episode you will understand:

► Links and Resources:

Codependency definition: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency

Tim Fletcher on codependency: https://youtu.be/yesXC_ibRKE?si=r4JO6JGdscfuJU0c

Infatuation Episode: https://youtu.be/Uk27yW1ZXMA?si=Ht_HBu-4LpN_SAO4

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► Episode Timestamps:

0:00 Overview

1:33 What is Codependency?

4:25 What is Complex Trauma?

5:16 Codependency in Relationships

9:29 Narcissism in Complex Trauma

11:02 High Sensitivity/Neurodivergence and Narcissism

14:20 What Happens, if You Don't Break the Codependent Cycle?

20:01 Masking, Hiding & Overadapting in Codependent Relationships

21:50 Alert Radar: Hypervigilance

23:22 Complex Trauma and Toxic Shame & Guilt

28:20 Solutions

30:00 Emotional Independence in Relationships

33:57 Final Thoughts

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