UNDERSTANDABLE

E213 - Relationships and Complex Trauma (CPTSD): When You Should End a Relationship


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Ending a relationship is of course a difficult decision and a hard one

Many people put this decision off for a long time.

I'm not here to tell you to end your relationship.

Even if that's how it's portrayed in the intro to the shrinking episode.

But sometimes it just takes a few facts to make you reconsider your decision.

If you're in a toxic relationship characterized by emotional or even physical abuse, please think about yourself (and your kids) first.

I know there are some people out there who don't realize until it's way too late that their partner is a narcissist or abusive. If there are already children and a family home involved, it becomes difficult. But even then, there are solutions that you may not even see at first. Don't forget that.



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Shrinking on Apple TV: https://tv.apple.com/de/episode/coin-flip/umc.cmc.2nmknji13kpwmbmt4ydxh95in?action=playSmartEpisode

Interview with Jules De Vitto: https://youtu.be/tqodXCQU2PE?si=FpZynIBR5DUV1RKk

Codependency Episode: https://youtu.be/OSeR88YWwhU?si=divRA5u12--l1Zuo


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► Episode Timestamps:

0:00 Intro Clip from: Shrinking - S1, E1 Fifty-Fifty

02:11 Ending A Relationship

3:53 Ending The Relationship Or Fighting For It?

6:00 How Your Relationships Are Connected With Your Past and Trauma From Your Childhood

6:30 Setting Boundaries And Making Changes

8:13 Definitions Of Love

12:00 When Should You End A Relationship?

18:45 Did Someone Really Change?

25:36 Anti-Receptive Relationship Between The Narcissist And The Highly Sensitive Empath

28:05 Solutions

36:30 Final Thoughts



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