Safe Space with Laura Caruso

Ep 05 - For Daters: Am I Giving Up Too Soon?


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This week, Laura dives into a question that so many daters ask themselves:Am I giving up too soon on people, or am I trusting my gut? If you’ve ever struggled with the tension between knowing when to walk away and wondering if you should give it more time, this episode is for you.

Laura breaks down what it really means to feel a "spark" in dating, how modern dating culture (especially dating apps) impacts our ability to connect, and why so many people unknowingly repeat old patterns that keep them stuck. If you’re feeling burned out by dating or second-guessing your choices, this episode will help you move forward with clarity and confidence.


In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  • The difference betweenintuition andanxiety in dating.
  • Why burnout might be blocking your ability to feel a spark.
  • How to tell if you’re making choices from a scarcity mindset.
  • The importance of expanding your dating patterns to attract the right person.
  • How long to give someone a chance before deciding it’s not a fit.



Key Moments:

[00:02:05] Why the phrase “I must be crazy” is a red flag in relationships.

[00:04:09] How modern dating culture encourages a lack of emotional consideration.

[00:05:01] Intuition vs. anxiety: How to tell the difference.

[00:06:31] Why dating burnout is real—and how to reset.

[00:09:00] How changing small habits can lead to different dating results.

[00:12:26] When to walk away vs. when to give it more time.


Why This Episode Matters:

Dating in today’s world is more exhausting than ever, and it’s easy to second-guess your choices. This episode offers a fresh perspective on navigating connection with intention—helping you know when to give someone a chance and when to trust your gut and move on.


Stay Connected:

  • Submit your questions for future episodes: Join Laura’sSafe Space broadcast channel on Instagram for the exclusive submission link every Sunday night.
  • Follow Laura on Instagram:@lauracaruso.therapy


Featured Resources:

If you’re ready to reprogram your attachment style and build healthier, more secure relationships, check out ⁠⁠Wired for Connection⁠⁠ (W4C)—Laura’s self-customizable course. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, W4C offers practical tools to transform your relationships from the inside out.

Learn more and start your journey here: ⁠⁠Wired for Connection⁠⁠. Use code SAFESPACE for 10% off your purchase.


What’s Next:

Next week, Laura answers another listener question, diving deeper into the realities of modern relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth. Don’t forget to submit your question on Sunday and tune in for more insights on love and connection.

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