Being abandoned is the best feeling in the entire world.

If that sentence made you go, “Um, WTF?” then you’re going to looove the rest of this episode.

I know it sounds fucking insane, yeah? How could anyone LOVE being abandoned? 

It’s more common than you think, actually. A lot of us have an addiction to being abandoned…but the root of that addiction is buried so deep in our subconscious that we don’t usually recognize it.

I know, because I used to be addicted to being abandoned. And if you can’t wrap your mind around that, think about it like this…

Do you lose interest in a guy when you don’t have to chase him?

Do you get major ick when you start to feel safe around someone?

Do you only think you’re “in love” when your nervous system is in total overdrive, leaving you “lovesick?”

Yeah, I thought that might sound familiar. Let’s talk about where this addiction to abandonment comes from.

 

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