Stop Drinking and Start Living- The Feminine Way

Ep. #127 Step 8 of 10 Generating Evidence In Your Favor


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Remember what you love and you will remember who you are.
Make a list of all of the things little to big you have ever loved since you were a baby until now.
Look at how they make you feel and how many of them will have nothing to do with alcohol.
There's all the evidence you need that a life LOVED is a life you already KNOW, you just need to keep practicing.

Today we are talking all about generating evidence to the contrary of the beliefs that support alcohol, but not in your outer world, in your life. Evidence you already have because it's you are amazing and other things are more important to you than alcohol. The more evidence you have that you DON'T require alcohol, the less desire and attachment you will have.

1) Look at what you love and why?
2) What are your NON_negotiables around alcohol? Where won't you drink? Dig deep to find that core VALUE and apply that reason to the areas where it seems impossible.
3) Out of these "trigger" categories, find evidence where you use to drink and don't any more. Or how you solve the problem already without alcohol. Recognize your inner strength to know you can apply this to other areas.
Write it down and make a list.
4) Remind yourself often of how amazing you are!

Types Of Triggers:
Habitual: regular drinking that is second nature.
Coping : As a tool for "processing"/suppressing emotion.
Situational: "Special occasion" drinking.
Nastolgia: Fond memories you experience through the senses.
Nihilism/Self Sabotage: "Screw it." Not in alignment w/ higher self.
Trauma/Life Events: Something you haven't yet experienced.


Ep. #120: Step 1: Sensation, the willingness to feel.
Bonus Episode: Embodiment Practice
Ep # 121 Step 2: Cultivating Non-Judgmental Emotional Awareness
Ep. #122 Step 3: Awareness of Desire Thinking
Ep. # 123: Step 4 Awareness of Attachment Thoughts
Ep. # 124: Step 5 Creating Your Belief Goal
Ep. # 125: Step 6 Processing Emotion
Ep. # 126: Step 7 Stop Bargaining & Start Accepting

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