Cheaper Than Therapy with Vanessa and Dené

Ep: 179 Q&A: Tough Conversations Around Sex & Porn Addiction


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In this Q&A episode, a listener wrote in asking for advice about a struggle she’s having with the frequency of her partner's desire for sex. 


We discuss:


  • Normalizing the understanding that someone having access to you sexually isn’t a given just because it’s within the parameters of a partnership, and what actually constitutes as sexual assault. 
  • How a society where men have been taught not to feel, often leads to sex as the primary outlet for connecting to their emotions and self-regulation. 
  • The importance of seeking support and taking accountability for facing the underlying codependency that so often accompanies addictive tendencies within ourselves and others.. 

  • Accounts we reference:

    Connor Beaton (@mantalks on instagram)


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